There's only one way to become a true pua.
That's to go out, and try to pick up a girl YOU like.
1)First go up to a girl you like and try just to hang out non-invasevly or give the feeling it's non-invasive.
2)After 30 minutes of chat try to kiss her.
That's it, the rest will follow.
The first times, this is what might happen.
1)You go up to girl You really like, your eager for her approval, but your non-threating.
So, she hangs.(but you don't do anything)
You see her 3/4 times at the club/venue you go to, and one day you'll feel completely secure in her presence.
you'll try to kiss her.
and she'll say "no, I don't see you that way..."
You ask her why
"well, when I first met you maybe, but not moment not now."
After the 5th time this happens.
You'll instinctevily learn::
To Kiss the girl when the eletricity is in the air(first day), or when you still don't feel 100% comfortable with her.
2)SO, you go out and you pick up, you kiss her the same night. You're pysched the world can't get any better.
Then, one day, someone uglier than you, than you deem a loser, picks up a chick YOu like, kisses her, and
farks her the same night.
NExt time you pick, up, THANKS to that "loser" your intenstity level will be higher and your calibration will be sharper.
The intensity comes from going out and picking up, and losing, or halfway closing, and observing other PUA (which you deem 'inferior to you') hit the mark.
You'll become sharper and more intuitive..and then
you'll be a master..
The hardest part OF THE WHOLE GAME is the fist pick up and the first attempted kiss..
the learning curve goes UP.
This is not valid if a chick picks you up. You have to pick someone YOU REALLY like.
GIRL you like: When a 10+ comes into a club, everybody wooes at her. We'll call her SNOWHITE.
Now, you find her attractive, but DO YOU REALLY LIKE her. Or does that 8 with the dark hair behind have more sex-appeal.
Now, when I watch Snowhite, I'd rather fark the evil witch than Snowhite. BUt in a club, with my buddy's I joke about how sexy snowhite is.
CLUB: Go to a club that has music you like.
I used to go to this club with 3 dance floors, hot women dressed super-trendy, and music I didn't like.
Result: I always felt inadeguate.
Then I finally found a club with music I actually listened to at home, and the clothing were bizare, but not THAT bizzare that I couldn't peackock.
Right away, I felt part of the scene.
It felt easier to pick up.
If you don't like music. Don't go to Clubs. Don't force yourself.
Go, at the local library (if you live in a city)..Or to that caffè you really like.
Basically, go somewhere you like, and feel comfortable.
peacocking: I see noone really explained WHY it's important.
You might see peacokcing as 'me trying to be cool'
WOMEN see it as 'That guy is being his real self, not hiding on some conformist sweatshirt and jeans' .
the peacokcing makes her comfrotable with you, faster, cause she feels like she sort of 'knows' you.
Having been for centuries forced not to be themselves (women)...they almost 'live' through you, if YOU ARE YOURSELF.
Being yourself is an art..
You don't need money to hear truism mixed with B.S. Or
hear ALL OF THEM and read different philosophers)
But at the moment of your first pick up...Forget everything you studied..and use your survival instinct, which will automatically hold only the grains of real truth which you need in that precise moment.
I'd say, READ mystery's method. But then don't use it.
have it somewhere in your blood. BUt let the 'fight' be yours.
Oh, I saw this PUA master video, of this guy, aside, from the fact that his face was the same as the bad guy in the INCREDIBLES.
spewed out farked up stuff like
"Before going to a club pump yourself up in the car already"
What? If my favorite music is Led Zeppelin and I listen to it in the car, then whatever music is the club will just deflate me.
What you can do before the club, is focus on the strict present.
then, he had this montage of his raising this girl the club with both his arms..It smelled like a set-up from a mile.
As in "Just for the camera, can I borrow your Gf" then he filmed himself holding her..
All you REALLY need is courage of that first approach.
From mistakes, etc. Your intution will giude to the top.
If you don't REALLY like Phussie, as in PIck up is an art you don't REALLY have a passion to learn.
BUt you just want to get layd, without really exploring yourself or women or the scenes.
JUST read Mystery Method(he seems like the only one that evolves.)...
Not that I agree with everything he sais...Something, I'd do different. But he has no flase truisms..(well, maybe when he exagerates on the primal condition of man..)
But not with the actual pick up.
And no, am not affiliated.
I'm an I.T, and honestly the best I.T's in the companies, I worked for aren't the engineers with 10 PHD's,
who studied it throughly.
The best ones are the ones that have a passion for it, who love it.
Some of the best ones, studied it privately, and aren't even college graduates.
Sort of like musicians.
You don't have to go to Juliard..If have to have a true passion for the guitar and have the Balls to go out there and try and play for people.