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Thread: First phone call - Made a date - What now?

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    Default First phone call - Made a date - What now?

    After getting #close from POF, I talked on the phone with this hot 20 year old chick. Things got a little heated as a guided the conversation towards sex, slightly. I don't have huge expectations for the first date, but I'm pretty sure this one's going to be a lay in no time. I love horny 20 year old's . My transition to sex was from her talking about getting on stage at a club and grinding on some older woman that wasn't too happy. I jokingly said that she better not have got her pregnant. After some laughs about that it just slowly transitioned to talk about how she likes foreplay. I have no idea how I do this sometimes lol.

    Anyway, after the phone calls was done, it left me wondering what to do until Saturday (today is Wednesday). How do I approach her in the following next few days? My approach would be to text as usual and call on Friday to ensure we're still on. What do you guys think?

    Edit: She sounded kind of nervous on the phone. I'm assuming it's because dating still makes her nervous. Is there something I can do to benefit from this?
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    Default Re: First phone call - Made a date - What now?

    By the sounds of it, the conversation with her went extremely well. In this case, the beginning of your next conversation should reference something from the previous one. It can be a joke or a funny moment the two of you had. Doing this brings her back around to that fun interaction, and gets her warmed up and excited for the next interaction with you.
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    Default Re: First phone call - Made a date - What now?

    That definitely worked. I started talking about her tying me up, as she mentioned she'd like to.This conversation gave me enough ammo for the next one. She had to go pick up her nephew so we continued later that night.

    It's challenging when I re-phone to try and pick up sex talk, and the chick says WHAT DO YOU MEAN? Then I'm stuck thinking, "What do I say? Do I ask her something sexual outright?". I struggled with this, but I dance around it and say "Well, you mentioned you weren't alone before. Now you are and we can have some more fun on the phone". I think I can be even more direct than that though.

    "Imagine..." has been a powerful word in my arsenal in this interactions. I have this girl wet over the phone telling me what she's going to do to me.

    Looks like I might be renting a hotel room on Saturday! I thought 20 year olds would have nothing in common with me. Turns out they do lol
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    Default Re: First phone call - Made a date - What now?

    I agree with Swagman, looks like you started it off well. You established it right off the bat and built up that Tension in her.

    I'd continue to do the whole flirtatious explicit thing, but don't overkill it.

    I find that this kind of stuff girls do open up and tend to love. I wanted to write an article/blog about it.

    Look at it this way, think of novels that male authors right. Such as Nicholas Sparks and his cheesy love novels and romantic movies that come out (The Notebook, Dear John, etc)... Girls like it, but if you ever read or watch them, it isn't explicit in the passion department. Why? Because a male wrote it.

    Now look at female authors (the chick who wrote the Twilight series or that 50 shades of Gray book stuff)... They are EXPLICIT and raunchy. Why? Because women like to escape and feel comfortable with their sexuality.

    Within women, they talk to eachother in such graphic details about this kind of stuff... So if you can tap into that with a female and make her feel comfortable and OK with it, you got yourself some good tension build up.

    I say Kudos to you. Keep it up, go for it, bring it out in her.

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    Default Re: First phone call - Made a date - What now?

    That is some amazing incite. I appreciate your post. It really put things into perspective for me and some others I'm sure.
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