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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    lets forget the boo thing because he probably said that already
    no forgetting, learn from it
    she enjoyed it becos she may have thought of the two of you together and might have liked it
    she didn't object to it so it was fine

    i agree with everything else you guys have said

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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    one more thing

    yo boo, tell ur bro i said happy bday \m/
    A huge no no unless maybe you have escalated on them like hyp..who knos.but yh its best to avoid these in my opinion.we almost always want the dynamic to pull in our favour.

    no forgetting, learn from it
    yep i think he is about to move this forward so..plus no dwelling too much on past issues.

    she didn't object to it so it was fine
    yep she definitely kinda likes this guy

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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    it's setting the frame that she's his (in a non-object sense), and it's a way to test the boundaries, remember the worst thing she can say is no, and then keep building

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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    HardRock, I get what you're saying, however, we should really not dwell ourselves in the happy thought that we can make mistakes, like beeing needy and kind of a pushy pushy and still get the girl... because we won't. We can however befriend her, and that's a huge win, because no matter the PUA bullshit of social proof and etc, you're befriending a human being, a female for instance, and they are so much more fucking funny than men.

    Anyway, marvilo is an action man, that's great and I praise you because you're on the right track to get better. Congratulations dude, I envy you, because at the beginning I had no balls. No, I had them, I just didn't want to look for them.

    Getting the right attitude takes time, because it's an inner game thing, not an outer game thing...

    She may have liked marvilo, but I think now she doesn't, at least no as much as she did, because he's not being congruent, seeing how he acted and how he's acting... her answer "lol ok" it's the proof...

    Girls are attracted to congruent guys... congruent guys are guys that keep the same attitude all the time (always confident and non needy, not confident now and needy later)... moreover, she doesn't like she's making any effort, so it's marvilo's job to prompt her to make an effort. I'm not saying it's her job to ask him out, I'm saying that she must feel that she deserves and invitation from marvilo, otherwise she will simply refuse his invitation. Remember that we must focus on women high points, no ours.

    But marvilo, the force is with you young padawan, you're definitely on the right track

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    HardRock, I get what you're saying, however, we should really not dwell ourselves in the happy thought that we can make mistakes, like beeing needy and kind of a pushy pushy and still get the girl... because we won't.
    Nope there is nothing like being needy/pushy here.Its simple when you are talking to a girl and she seems engaged you take action.Asking a girl out is a matter of simple logistics.When they are attracted or engaged you may ask them out.Looking out for windows and taking action is the best way.forget a woman high point once they are attracted you may escalate.most people can do that.if not you may ask and compare notes.

    Women may call you tell you they love you u know why?its because of the guy you are being to them.Attraction can be triggered over and over again.Even if you are not congruent and you go back to being the attractive guy it works..like a charm.that is why we post here.cuz sometimes as humans will run into perils.unless we have handled that or dealt with that dynamic a couple of times.i assumed mal can ask girls out that is why i did not feature it.however if he wants some suggestions thats totally cool.he can handle it.

    We can however befriend her.(lenric personally i don't care about friendship with women that much.i love them and they fulfill a role in my life)
    PUA bullsh1t of social proof and etc,
    Social proof works.eventually if you stick to the game.you will have your own social proof and dhv stories to tell. even interesting stories in general.Any unique experience can be shared with a woman in my opinion really.You just have to know what your doing.

    Getting the right attitude takes time, because it's an inner game thing, not an outer game thing...
    Hmm i think that as long as you practice keep a journal and track your progress.identify the areas why you have problems.and work on them.the attitude should come cuz you have experience now.Learning never stops.so i kinda agree on that

    She may have liked marvilo, but I think now she doesn't, at least no as much as she did, because he's not being congruent, seeing how he acted and how he's acting... her answer "lol ok" it's the proof...
    I think the girl likes mal on some level still.by even accepting the role 'boo' by not calling him out she kinda doesn't have a problem.if a girl hates something in this case she may call you out or may let you know that wait a mintute get that out of your head cuz am not interested.

    Girls are attracted to congruent guys... congruent guys are guys that keep the same attitude all the time (always confident and non needy, not confident now and needy later)... moreover, she doesn't like she's making any effort, so it's marvilo's job to prompt her to make an effort.
    Attraction can be sparked..anytime.Con gruence comes eventually from practice.there are a few stages of learning something.mastery and intermediary comes later.

    To get a girl to see you u do not need congruence initially.you need attraction or she is supposed to be engaged enough or comfortable to escalate all the way.You just need to know how to get a girl attracted to you then you follow with escalation .if you keep congruence on your mind you may stall.if you can practice and get a feel of it first.if you see through a dynamic it means you have been there and did it a certain way and it worked.


    I'm saying that she must feel that she deserves and invitation from marvilo, otherwise she will simply refuse his invitation. Remember that we must focus on women high points, no ours.
    Yep your right she must feel she deseves one.The attraction that has taken place can be amplified soon enough to get him there.even if it dies marvillo may spark it, and act on it FAST.Having the right Mindset and taking action in a proper way can get you there.


    In a nutshell don't try to be smooth initially not necessary.be in the moment have the right tools and mindsets.eventually you will have a feel and you can do it almost effortlessly.

    it's setting the frame that she's his (in a non-object sense), and it's a way to test the boundaries, remember the worst thing she can say is no, and then keep building

    Hey like i said this is not a bad thing, but imagine you meet a girl and you do that and for her and its a turnoff.Again its not that bad but yh.

    Fast escalation is not a bad thing.apart from these i think am ok with the rest.kind of sorta agree.but yh

    Its ok if you take action soon..

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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    The guy's talking to her by text dude. Obviously if he wasn't, it would be way better, but he's not. By text you need more momentum, especially when her attraction is starting to want to go buy a hotdog, which is the case.

    The wrong thing with so many aspiring PUAs is that they think this thing is so scientific that they start to put a name in everything. DHVs here, n-closes there. social proof here, qualification there. It becomes mechanic, and flirting with a woman shouldn't be mechanic. That's what I was referring to when I said PUA bullshit.

    And yes, marvilo's being needy. Every time you have an agenda you're being needy. That's the case here. Him calling himself her boo is being needy.

    Obviously she wouldn't call marvilo out for telling her he's her boo. It has no sexual reference. He's putting himself under her. Seeing that, she'd only call him out if she had a mental disorder.

    You need congruency when attraction a girl all the time. Being congruent is not only acting the same way. It's way more than that. It's actually opening a girl with an open body language. It's all about matching your words with your attitudes and body language. When this congruency doesn't exist, is doubted and/or needs to be proved, you're shit tested.

    Oh and yes, attraction may be amplified every time... considering you haven't fucked up before.

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    The guy's talking to her by text dude.Obviously if he wasn't, it would be way better, but he's not. By text you need more momentum, especially when her attraction is starting to want to go buy a hotdog, which is the case.
    i think with text attraction can still be amplified.and you can go for the meetup it goes both ways.

    woah your outta line the name is HardRock.Yh i kinda agree with that on momentum kind of building attraction too.lenric get that if a girl looses attraction it may be sparked.we know you know that.if not why is that when people run into snags and come to compare notes it works almost always.esp if executed properly.

    The wrong thing with so many aspiring PUAs is that they think this thing is so scientific that they start to put a name in everything. DHVs here, n-closes there. social proof here, qualification there. It becomes mechanic, and flirting with a woman shouldn't be mechanic. That's what I was referring to when I said PUA bullsh1t.
    You may hate games and lines but you must accept that people come from different places.Eventually everyone gets their own unique experiences.You become congruent..or just run game

    And yes, marvilo's being needy. Every time you have an agenda you're being needy. That's the case here. Him calling himself her boo is being needy.

    Having an intent is not an agenda.He may want to make this girl special.that is a good intent.even sexual relationships may be termed as a good intent depending on what you want, and how you handle it.him calling her boo like i said is not that bad.but overall is not a good practice, just because of diffrent dynamics one may encouter in the game.this girls likes him, she is attracted since she didn't call him out we can say he is safe for now.

    He needs to reengage and escalate.Period.i kinda agree on what you may be saying that it wrong.theres another term for that but thats not a problem now.it not really neediness even though you're right about it being wrong.


    Obviously she wouldn't call marvilo out for telling her he's her boo. It has no sexual reference. He's putting himself under her. Seeing that, she'd only call him out if she had a mental disorder.
    Trust me forget mental disorder that sounds like a stereotype. most girls don't have that.By accepting that she has supplicated herself but we prefer escalation.If she had called him out then mal would be under her.but i don't think he may say that again.

    You need congruency when attraction a girl all the time. Being congruent is not only acting the same way. It's way more than that. It's actually opening a girl with an open body language. It's all about matching your words with your attitudes and body language. When this congruency doesn't exist, is doubted and/or needs to be proved, you're sh1t tested.
    woah lenric thats a mouthful.i get that but what about someone who is just starting out.am not refering to mal and other puas now, but imagine someone comes here and you embed this Mindset.Or will you able to remember all this in the field.Nope so one must first understand attraction or know how to spark it.no matter what if one is starting out they don't have congruence.You need to practice.in field experience is sometimes different from the main theory.If you don't focus on attraction etc you may stall.They tell you be congruent fine.but trust me it comes after a few rounds.if it your first you will definately not be, and if your focusing too much on that.

    Oh and yes, attraction may be amplified every time... considering you haven't farked up before.
    yep attraction when created may be amplified to assist escalation.If you farked up then you may spark it again(but here one must make sure they take it all the way).Most of the time if your in the moment moving things forward, having the right mindset and options, you almost never fail.

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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    It's all good, cheers mate
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    Always been good
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    Default Re: Oovoo Sh1t test about relationship

    haha u guys, like an old married couple but you're both right with everything you've said in the previous comments

    and if the new pua guy is smart, he's gonna accept failure and then do everything he can to avoid it next time :>

    Obviously she wouldn't call marvilo out for telling her he's her boo. It has no sexual reference. He's putting himself under her. Seeing that, she'd only call him out if she had a mental disorder.

    LOL, she'd call him out if she didn't feel anything for him, any women would

    and if she's attracted to him in person, he can say whatever the fqck to her and she'll respond, a wise man on this forum once said this, and it's been tested on many occasion to conclude it's true


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