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Thread: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

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    Default Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    Lots of times i find my self standing beside beautiful woman when i'm at the bar ordering something to drink. But when i try to come up with something smart to say to them my mind goes blank.

    Anyone got a good opener for these situations?

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    Was your 1st grade teacher <put in some random name with virtually no chance of it being right>? Your response being "Really? Well mine wasn't either, I wonder what other things we might have in common."

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    I sometimes go with "hey, my friend is hitting on the bouncer so i decided to meet some new people. my name is xxxx." or if you feel like being cocky "my name is the new hot guy you just met"

    I feel like that gives me some value, I'm at the bar with a friend. My friend is a girl, who is social and is getting to know the staff. You really don't even need a 'friend' if they ask say you say you assume they hit it off well and i've never been asked anyway

    Then sometimes I like to guess their names right after opening, i'll say 'wait! before you tell me your names I'm going to guess...you are Crystal...and you are Foxy" I give them Stripper names, or any unorthodox name i think of. And the conversation is usually pretty smooth.

    There's others but that's my go to off the top of my head

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    you can try something sassy that would get their attention, such as: 'you and I would not get along' or 'you guys look like trouble'. Then transition into an interesting story and go from there. Be sure to apply the 3 second rule with this, you need to hit them with it as soon as you see them

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    I saw Tyler Durden on youtube open up a girl that sat in a bar with: Are you the guardian of this bar? I haven't tried it out, and I dont think it's that good of an opener to use to the girl you want. But I do think it's a good opener to just start a conversation with a random girl and make other hotter women notice you having a fun conversation with a random girl you've just met. And that's what girls find attractive.

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    Hey guys,

    ive been reading alot of these posts and i figured its about damn time that I give back.

    For the bar counter situations, I have 2 main openers. The caveat is this works in most clubs or crowded bars where the counter is packed with people ordering drinks.

    1) Tap the HB on the shoulder and ask her for a favor. Half of the time, they will know what you will ask. If not - "Could you do me a huge favor? Could you flag the bartender down so I/we can get drinks?" I have not met a single HB that has said no. While she is trying to get the bartender's attention, just make small talk (ask her what she is drinking, etc).

    2) Instead of the "favor" route, make it a game. "Damn, its so hard to get a drink here! Let's see who can get a drink first!" I always win because I flag that bartender down like a champ and make sure that I am assertive enough...and for good measure, I'll get the HB a drink as a consolation prize. Once I know what her drink is, make small talk about that and move forward.

    The key is to be disarming and charming. By initiating conversation this way, it doesn't appear that you are hitting on her, but just making random conversation.

    hope this helps one day. Theyre my go to openers!

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    my personal favourite is ''you ever dump in a gold toilet ?'' shocks but has great response. credits to Mystery.

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    Default Re: Anyone got any good bar counter openers

    Open like you would anywhere else. Be creative.

    "Hey. There's something stuck in your hair. Eww, lice."
    Taylor to the hotness of the girl. Add one line per 2 extra points starting at 5.
    Be normal
    "Hey, its my first time here, what good drinks do they have"
    Be cocky funny
    "Hey, watch out, you're invading all the prime real estate"(good if she's close or you guys are packed tight. if she's smart, this is great opener)

    There's so many ways to open, best if it comes from you. Only way to make it sound natural.


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