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    InTheMaking is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default You got her, but now what?

    Hey guys I have recently been trying to improve my life and become more confident and successful with approaching/getting the girls that I too often pass up even after I notice they have interest in me. I haven't made much progress with this yet because I have just been busy and finally have a chance to get back at it. An opportunity fell into my lap this past week and my question is a little bit different than the normal.

    I recently started talking to a girl that I knew from my past(just talked some in high school). Knowing she was interested I invited her over and we ended up sleeping together. Later in the week she came over another night. My problem, if you want to call it that, is that i'm pretty damn positive she is really falling for me and I'm just not sure what I want to do about it. I do like her a lot but it may be more as a friend. If i decide to go that route is there a way to accomplish it without the straightforward talk? She even hit me with the shitty guys in the past talk and how i'm different etc.. so i don't want to hurt her.

    I remember reading somewhere that most puas only sleep with a girl if they foresee them as a girlfriend, friend, business contact, etc. but being a pua you must have some way that you.. keep them at bay after building such attraction. I'm curious as to how that aspect works. Everything i have read tells you how to get the girl but this seems to be absent.

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    by the way - It still can go either way.. i just want to be ready for what i choose.

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    OK listen up.

    The key to your happiness and hers is to be upfront and honest with her. Tell her that you really enjoy being with her and she is really important to you, but it is also very important at this point in your life for you to be able to meet other people. You know that this may make her want to leave you and this would make you very upset, but you owe it to yourself to do this at this point in your life.

    Girls are incredibly resilient, just keep your frame of reference strong and remind her that she is important to you, but you are not ready to be exclusive.


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