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    mike.wow89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default oneitis case with girl I just met

    So I met this girl I really, which isn't bad but it seems as if I caught a case of oneitis. Even though I'm not showing her that I think about her to much, I'm not coming across as needy, I am feeling that way though. What can I do to work on that? Thank you.

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    Default Re: oneitis case

    Meet more girls.See gaming as practice.if you end up with something fine,but but even if you do you should be after the skill which is most important.PEACE

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    Default Re: oneitis case

    You may not think you are acting needy but if you feel that way sub-consciously you'll end up showing it.

    Getting past oneitis is about occupying your time. You need to find stuff to do to keep yourself busy. Hobbies, sport, anything that keeps you occupied.

    Another tip is to try and date multiple girls at the same time. That way you are less dependent on them.

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    Default Re: oneitis case

    Yer man you gotta date other girls, or atleast chat to them.

    This may sound stupid to you, but before when i was a huge AFC i thought what am i good at? I have always been able to get work, ive had more jobs than hot dinners! haha so i started to see each girl as a potential 'job', if you know what i mean.

    This way i didnt become too attached to any because i already knew there was plenty more like i know there is so much work out there, but people complain because they cant find a job that is perfect for them. The reality is, like a job you have to improve and be promoted, everyone has to start at the bottom.

    This also helped me with my oneitus, i would approach different girls, text loads and stuff and eventually i became less infected with the oneitus virus. It was ironic though because after a while, when i was less into my previous oneitus influence, i ended up getting with her!

    but yer man i think the key is to get chatting to other ladies, best of luck!

    Red


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