Re: Turning the conversation sexual/ flirty
I have only one thing to say that's missing from a lot of people's game. Its slightly advanced but it pretty easy once you understand the concepts and it will accelerate how quickly you get a girl in bed (7 Hours from the Mystery Method is too dogmatic).
This is called a Statement of Intent, also known as an SOI. SOIs can implemented at any part of the pick up but I like to start introducing them early in the interaction (usually in the first 5 minutes).
What makes a good SOI or how do you use them? Well there are two basic rules to an SOI
-The word sexy or attractive.
-A solid reason for saying it (a quality of her personality).
Some people in the community think that being sexual is wrong and you may creep a girl out, which is true to some extent. Some people also think that if you are not sexual you will end up getting blown out by the girl at some point which is definitely true. I don't think I've ever seen anyone get a girl if they didn't do anything sexual.
The thing is, most guys are calling a girl sexy without a valid reason (mostly because of her looks) or they say it too late when the girl has no longer viewed the man as a sexual threat. So when is it right to announce you want the girl? When she has invested in the conversation to the point that you learn something about her that you genuinely find sexy. Girls want to be liked for who they are as a person, not for their image.
An example of an SOI. "Wow, not only are you sexy but you are an incredible conversationalist". That's as basic as it gets but its effective, you can get creative and think of loads but it's best to think of them on the spot.
Another one so you can ramp up the sexual Tension: "Damn, your smile, it's just so sexy... I'm having a hard time even thinking everytime I see it because there is only one thing I can think of doing."
If it genuine and she can feel that honesty you are gold. The less smooth the better but you need to know how to handle the reaction (that is vital). If she doesn't object to the SOI than keep proceeding and go forward with the interaction. If she does object or changes in anyway, just keep being confident and tell her you meant every word. She will forgive you for being a man but not for being a pussy.
If you really feel she's objected to the SOI, you can neg or push her. There is also the option of admitting it and saying "Get used to things I say because I mean them and I never apologise for it".
The only thing you need in context for an SOI to really work is investment on her part (her contributing to the conversation) which is achieved through wide rapport and having a solid connection. An SOI should always be treated as a reward for her investment in you.
I hope this makes very clear sense. I would have more examples but they are all in my little black book of notes which is at home and I'm in my University Library. But the fact remains that SOIs are a game changer and its something that definitely works for me.
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