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Thread: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

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    Default Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    So at first me and this HB I met talked pretty much on normal occasions and she showed lots of ioi but recently I haven't been able to think of things to talk to her about that would potentially trigger sexual tension. Like today she showed me a hickey that her best friend (female) gave her, and I didn't even know what to say to that >.< and I know that could have been a good hook point in starting something interesting to talk about

    I could have flirted a little and say "oh is that all she can do" but Im skeptic because i read that direct flirting could leave you vulnerable to lots of sh1t test. So it's kinda a risky situation

    And suggestions on things I can do to improve my interaction with her? I feel like I'm close to at least making out with her if she's telling me these personal teases.

    Side Note: in school (high school) once the lunch bell rings she always awaits me to see where we would hang out since she doesn't want to go to cafeteria.

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Ahahha omg I thought I was here to help you with your game. Your saying you feel your losing your game with this ONE GIRL? lol Your problem right now is you care about what she does. You can't think of something to say about her hickey because you want to say something that will "Impress her". This is fundamentally wrong because your trying to win her over. Be an alpha male and let her qualify. Think about everything she says as she's just trying to impress you. Make sure you reward her for waiting for you every day with a hug and a little attention. She likes you but dont worry at all what happens with her.

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Your right about this, it seems I'm becoming to attached which isn't a good thing. Normally I have been sitting next to her in class, do you think it would be wise to pick a different seat and make her chase me instead?

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Be careful about how much you make her "chase you". If you start faking it like you're not interested in her at all, she will get bored and also lose interest in you.

    Be confident, flirty, playful and show her that you're interested in her WITHOUT being needy or clingy!

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Take a breather or a pause man...dont stumble or start talking in circles trying to nail a good line off to her. And as well it doesnt have to be a golden comeback either.

    Ive even stalled a situation before myself, but just playing it cool, and took several seconds to formulate a good line..but the way I played it you wouldnt know I was stalling. You dont have to necessary get in your head all hardcore to say something sly and witty but then at the same time with said "opening" you want to really lay something creative to gain the appropriate response.

    For example with her I wouldve been like let me get a good look here "thinking of something to say" look at it with an angle or in good light...tilt your head in, maybe have her lean a certain way..by then youve burned up several seconds to clear your head....Oh really you say it was your friend? You sure you just didnt create that trying to reap some reputation points at school? That almost looks like it was from a vaccum cleaner hose....

    Slow yourself down and dont get too speedy or concerned and you'll be able to spit some witty lines with ease.

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Maybe its just me, but she's not going to chase you. Just dont act too interested. You have to take action but not show too much interest. Some days ignore her. Others go ahead and sit next to her and keep it going. You have to look like she's not your only option.
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Hey dm,have you thought of kissing this girl.i mean sometimes when you feel like you are running out of material it simply means you are at a huge bridge.don't get too stuck on sexual Tension too much.its just a spice.but don't stop being the attractive guy in her life though.

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    Yeah. Have thought of kissing her but I need a private environment and se also said that she had a bf which I knew was a Sh1t Test . I'm just not sure how to use triangulation effectivly while saying something that will make her feel comfortable with me kissing her

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    Default Re: Slowing losing my Game?? WTF IS HAPPENING?

    i presume you are comfortable running game in general .call her/text and invite her out.I prefer if you're feeling slightly nervous since you seem slightly invested on this on you go out and meet a few girls..just to warm up.it could be just talking really, and escalating if you have the opportunity.the goal of this is to get you up for it.

    The next thing like i said invite her out then run game.as your running game be sure to apply Kino.eg.touching her arm.,stroking her cheek,holding her hand whilst walking.

    From here you have too options walk her to a place where you are both alone or simply less people around and kiss her.i didn't get The Vibe that she was special so no secluded kiss needed.she may have a boyfriend or not if she does i suggest you take your experience with her and move on.there are many girls.and remember you could be doing this a few times a week if you want.All am saying is don't get stuck on her, and be safe.


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