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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    I'll try some of that for sure.

    It's funny, second she got home last night she texted me about being tired so I teased her about going back out with us at which she said no, ready for a nap . I called her a party pooper and she went to bed then calls me crazy bc I was out till 5 AM enjoying my Friday night.

    I just don't wanna screw this up.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Talked to a mutual friend today who I know she talks to a lot. She has told her that she has strong feelings but is confused as to what she should do. I'm going to discuss it with her next time I get together with her.

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    She has told her that she has strong feelings but is confused as to what she should do. I'm going to discuss it with her next time I get together with her.

    pretty solid stuff, keep us posted on what happens cause this is a1, if she tells u just wanna be friends don't react too hard, but i see her choosing u over her bf, given that crazy amount of time she's spent with u and the fact that u both click

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    I want to add something that should go without saying but I am going to say it anyways. In an earlier post you said you didn't want to drag it out if nothing came out of it(Something along those lines) but no matter if you get her or not something is coming out of it. You get the experience of gaming her. Another good thing to remember is that you are doing this for the skill set not the girl. There are many girls but only one game. The skill set is in my opinion a greater goal than the girl and if you get into that Mindset when you do screw up and lose the girl then it is no big deal. Lol. I mean I got friend zoned today but screw it. I expanded my social circle and can still practice gaming her. Hope this helps.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Keep yourself an an option, play your cards right and be alpha. Heck even if you are a better person to hang out with that makes it easier when her bf makes mistakes. If you are continuously more satisfying it is only a matter of time until she gets bored,frustrated, he effs it up and you now have the upper hand.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    idk to me it sounds like a perfect time to use xaviers bf destroyer method (i don't actually condone it but she's in a state where it'd work perfectly imo)

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    Agreed I don't condone it but load the deck guns and start dropping depth charges. Be the destroyer.
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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    idk to me it sounds like a perfect time to use xaviers bf destroyer method (i don't actually condone it but she's in a state where it'd work perfectly imo)
    Yup , Nuke the BF A.S.A.P.
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    We sat down yesterday for around 2 hours and discussed the situation before I had to go to work. She said she has been confused over what to do since we originally started talking.

    In a nice way I explained that it was not fair to any of us if we don't make a decision on it. Never gave her a timeline on it and told her that it was confusing to me as well since we hang out all the time and obviously have strong feelings and then to see her out with him.

    During this entire time we were still extremely close and touchy, everything was cool and went well.

    I left for work and we texted for a bit, I mentioned it being cold at work and she said to come cuddle, I was like be right there lol. Since then I've heard nothing back so I dunno.

    Now, I'm super confused. I mean, I don't think she would just cut me off considering we work together pretty much everyday and can't avoid seeing each other.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Can't cut her out completely or you disqualify yourself, you have to maintain the respect she has for you, capitalize on situations that fall into your lap. That way the destruction just happened. Remember you have to be consistently better than who she is with at that point they just disqualify themselves. It is a delicate balance of knowing when to strike and when to play it chill. But don't avoid it avoidance of any situation is beta, beta won't win this game. You need to be alpha.

    At this point you have to toy with her emotions like hers toy with you, use Cat String Theory. Close enough to keep her chasing but not enough for her to feel like she has won you and move on.
    Last edited by hometownextra; 05-27-2013 at 12:01 PM. Reason: Last editorial comment
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