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    Default To ask or not to ask

    That is the question, right?

    Sorry for the long post.

    Okay, we have a new girl at work who has not been around long, 2 weeks tops. I was sitting with a friend in the break room the 1st time I seen her and him and I were talking about random crap and laughing, I seen her glance over and I think she thought we were laughing about her, which we weren't.

    A few days later she was standing by the time clock and I was waiting on some friends because we had plans so I just walked up and started talking with her about anything and everything. We talked for a good 10 minutes or so and I found out a good deal about her, such as the fact that her mom works in the same building and I actually know her quite well. She actually helped train me so I'm on her good side.

    Anyway, since then when we pass we speak but really haven't had much time to talk because we have been working different shifts except for the other night when I was 3-11 and she worked 5-1030. We had small conversations during this time and at one point she 'accidentally' brushed against my leg as she walked by with her had. I didn't let on and let it pass without saying anything about it.

    Yesterday was my day off but like most people I have to shop every now and then so I ended up right back at work. Seen she was working so strolled through her line. Didn't have much time to talk as it was busy but she jokingly said I needed to work on being nicer to her while I was off and I said okay, will do and we laughed it off.

    Went to play basketball with friends later the same day and when finished I was hungry so again stopped by work since it's on the way and a McDonalds is inside (Yeah, I'm so damn healthy I know). Didn't feel like taking it home so I figured there would be a friend on break or something and I'd just chill with them, turns out she had just clocked out for lunch and was sitting at a table alone in the break room so I proceeded to join her by asking what she had bought me to open up.

    We sat and talked for a little over an hour and joked around, tons of eye contact and no awkward silence during this time. I should have number closed here but didn't do it and I regret it but I don't think I've messed up... yet.

    Should I continue this route or just move on?

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    I see her again tomorrow, need some tips please!!

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Why give up get her number and get her out, bet it is better when you aren't competing with the time constraint of lunch break.

    Just saying how much more of an ioi do you need. Likelihood of her just picking you off your chair in the break room slamming you into the wall and making out with you is pretty slim but if you Number Close her and get with her outside work there is a chance it will be more productive.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Alright, a little update here.

    I had not seen her in awhile to really have much time to talk and finally had about an hour with her on Wednesday. Now before she told me that when she goes home she shuts her phone off and goes to bed, which is a huge key if true.

    We were outside joking around at work and she mentioned that the sky was pretty. So being a smartass I told her to climb the side of the building and take a picture. She was like no you do it and send it to me. I played it off and ignored it.

    When she went back inside I did just that and took a picture and took my final break as she was leaving. I had created a contact for her in my phone and handed her the phone, confused she kind of looked at me and I was like I need to have somewhere to send the picture, she laughs and puts her number in no problem.

    Now, she goes home and turns her phone off supposedly, maybe she was just waiting on the picture? I don't know, but we've been texting like crazy since, and finally ended at 3am last night.

    She makes tons of little hints that could be taken either way as a joke or serious. She mentioned sneaking off with me after work with a wink and a bunch of other crazy things.

    I'm trying to decide if she's just a tease or actually serious... women are confusing.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Dude the fact that she is texting you is a big hint. Her joking like that with you is another. Even if she is trying to be a tease there is a part of her that likes you. My new motto is this. If she is talking to me then she wants me. Just remember that. she could be spending her time in other ways but she choose to talk to you instead. If it turns out she was being a tease then fark it. You have other women to chose from. Hope that helps. Oh and as far as the name of this post - To ask or not to ask - I mean why not ask? The worst she can do is say no.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    I think we are hanging out Sunday so we'll see where that goes. I just don't see the point of dragging people along if you have no intentions of following through.

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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Okay, we didn't get to do anything Sunday as she had family plans come up which I completely understood.

    We ended up going to the park today before work for a little bit. Didn't have much time really since we were both having a busy day but I felt it went well for what it was.

    Did get slightly awkward at work though when we had 2 or 3 different people ask if we were together, neither one of us really knew what to say and just kind of starred into the the air lol.

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    Very large update here guys.

    I found out she does have a boyfriend, however from what I've gathered they really don't spend much time together and here is why...

    For the last week we've been together almost every day at the local park just hanging out and talking. She opened her phone one day and on her text log he was not even near the top.

    Here is the crazy thing, I'm from out of state and she knows that but doesn't have a clue about the exact town. She's been to areas from where I'm from and actually went to a summer camp in the state. I asked where and it's a camp that is literally 10 minutes from my old house, she basically knows the entire area where I'm from, crazy right?

    She had to do a big presentation for school the other day and was pretty nervous about it. I had her do her speech in front of me just for the fun of it, and it was actually pretty interesting.

    I decided to go chase storms with a few friends that evening and in the middle of it she had just gotten home from the speech and texted me about it, saying it went well and all that good stuff. Also said that she didn't want to leave me earlier that day and that it felt like romeo and juliet lol. We were in the next town over where you can buy some mean milkshakes, she jokingly said we should buy her one, I asked what I got in return and she said whatever I want, so of course I showed up 20 minutes later with a milk shake for her. We all sat around for an hour talking and laughing, nothing happened and I didn't expect it to either.

    We met up again yesterday and sat around for 3 hours, it's to the point where you couldn't slide a sheet of paper in between us. She went to the movies tonight with her boyfriend which was fine, I did tell her though that the ball was in her court and she needed to figure it out.

    I'm not one to make a move like that and ruin a relationship but in this situation I'm starting to think it's what's needed?


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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    FYI: Romeo and Juliet killed themselves for love LOL, so don't.

    Joking aside, refine your Mindset. You are the prize. You are the alpha. So it's a sure thing that you are already better than her boyfriend. So, you will make a favor for her by being her new bf.
    My advice is to use this:
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    (Beware it's powerful )

    Golden guide, works almost everytime...


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    Default Re: To ask or not to ask

    Ive recently uploaded a guide to boyfriend destroyers but to me sounds like you dont need to do much. This girl is all over you and dropping every kind of ioi possible. Use the Straw man technique, which is similar to Xavier's bf destroyer technique example.
    One pointer though, i wouldnt have said that the ball is in her court to her, ultimately it is her choice but you shouldnt tell her that, make her want to chase you and act like you are the prize.

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