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    Default Girl at my gym setting up date

    So long story short. I met this girl around last October /November at a previous gym and we occasionally struck up a 2-3 min conversation. I usually kept it short because I take my workouts seriously. I have lost 115lbs, and even showed her my transformation picture.

    I left that gym in January and about 4-6 weeks ago she showed up at my new gym. We did the occasional conversation and about 2 weeks ago I mentioned to her that we should grab coffee when she was free. She said yeah ok, sure.

    I mentioned this to my training partner and a couple days later, he approached her. He told me he said "I asked her if she was gonna let you take her out, she said she doesn't go out with guys at the gym and I said don't be like that he's a good guy. We take our training serious and don't talk to people". I had nothing to do with this, dunno why he did but it's been done.

    So since then, to me it seems her attitude and body language changed. She wasn't really into talking or even a couple times not making eye contact until this past Sunday. We had a good little conversation and had her laughing, just talked about school and her spring cleaning. Tuesday she was going to workout next to us and I moved the bench out of her way. We talked again for a couple mins and she pulled out her phone and showed off her dogs.. Just another rapport building conversation.

    How do I bring up setting up a date, and what do I say if she brings up that she doesn't go out with guys from the gym? Did my friend help me, or hurt me from what he told her? She nor I, have mentioned anything about it. Leave it at that? I see this girl 5-6x a week at the gym. Thanks

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    Default Re: Girl at my gym setting up date

    Option one say you are going to whatever resteraunt to eat ask if she wants to join. If she says yes good, if she says she dont date guys from gym, reply who said anything about a date, it is good to carb after exercise,besides I am not that easy.

    That option gives you a way out if she thinks you are asking her out and she doesn't approve, also may trigger her into qualifying herself to you. Risk is if played wrong she gets idea you are not interested in her.

    Option two invite her out to food after gym, if she brings up not dating ppl from gym turn it against her, " are you hitting on me, it is ok if you are trying to plant ideas but please be more subtle about it. Say in flirty tone also this one needs to be timed before she finishes her I don't date guys from gym speach. You need to interrupt her if playing this one just to make her think it was her idea to go on a date. If she believes that she will agree. Downside to option two it is a one shot no escape but if played well will yield results

    This is my two cents anyone else feel free to add or modify if you feel my advice is off.

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    Default Re: Girl at my gym setting up date

    Your friend was kind of a troll lol

    Anyway, after a workout, in which you 2 have talked (for example, at the end, when doing some abs exercises or whatever), simply state "gosh I'm hungry! Let's grab something to eat at the coffee next to the gym".

    Oh by the way, don't give a fuck about what she says, but rather how she says it.

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    Default Re: Girl at my gym setting up date

    Totally spaced this thread lol. Haven't ran into her yet, probably will today.

    I really like those options. I'll probably just go with a gut instinct and throw one out there.

    What about the trolling my friend did? Do I need to bring that up or do I leave it as is and not mention it? Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Girl at my gym setting up date

    Just let it slide be un affected
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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