maybe it'll help you
How to respond? Well simply, just respond, anything, dont close out/eject or walk away without saying anything. Alot of girls test guys by negging them and its a test to see if the guy can handle their sh1t. You dont say anything, or get mad or confrontational, was does that say about you? How does she now think of you...Guaranteed both answers are going to be negative.
I usually respond with some type of playful tone, that way regardless of what I say(what I will say, not saying I will become confrontational) theyll know im responding back to their challenge...and not bothered by it at all. Which is a nice first step cause I noticed, making good eye contact, when girls confronted me with these lines theyd have a look in their eyes, a glare, that basically says "What are you going to do, or lets see you handle me now". Nothing is more powerful when you look them back with that glare, and respond with a glare of you own and answer them wittingly. And not by agreeing with them on what they say like some of these self proclaimed AFC/poser players. You know, girl says, oh your hair looks greasy is that some walmart hair gel? AFC player would say: Oh yeah it is I bought it cause it was cheap, im a baby back bitch...etc. or "Your making fun of me, You dirty %$#@^^ profanities"
First of all I wouldnt even let it bother me, thats key, even if they are taking a "low-blow" at your character and its totally made up to rip on you, act like its nothing...even flip it back on them, even fib it up back at them .."oh your looking at my hair now, I just saw you looking at my arms and crouch now its my hair?"
BTW what did she say to you that had you stumped?
"Oooohhh look at you making jokes and all, you're so cute! Hi5 for the effort!" In a playful way obviously and a smirk.
I stand behind Kino's guide it is good info packed into one easy to handle post
Learn to be a better person not a better player.