Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 6 of 6
  1. #1
    thegreatcucumber is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 91, Level: 1
    Level completed: 82%, Points required for next Level: 9
    Overall activity: 29.8%
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    23
    Points
    91
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default How to respond to girls negging YOU

    Last night I was approached by an HB9 after I raised my value in a bar stealthily. However, she was negging the shit out of me. Clearly being playful, but I didn't know how to respond to a lot of it. Are you supposed to respond to a neg with a neg?

  2. #2
    FlowTime is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 502, Level: 10
    Level completed: 4%, Points required for next Level: 48
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Posts
    67
    Points
    502
    Level
    10
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    27

    Default Re: How to respond to girls negging YOU


  3. #3
    Dj Chill is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,330, Level: 20
    Level completed: 30%, Points required for next Level: 70
    Overall activity: 69.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Location
    Great Lakes
    Posts
    169
    Points
    1,330
    Level
    20
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    66

    Default Re: How to respond to girls negging YOU

    How to respond? Well simply, just respond, anything, dont close out/eject or walk away without saying anything. Alot of girls test guys by negging them and its a test to see if the guy can handle their sh1t. You dont say anything, or get mad or confrontational, was does that say about you? How does she now think of you...Guaranteed both answers are going to be negative.

    I usually respond with some type of playful tone, that way regardless of what I say(what I will say, not saying I will become confrontational) theyll know im responding back to their challenge...and not bothered by it at all. Which is a nice first step cause I noticed, making good eye contact, when girls confronted me with these lines theyd have a look in their eyes, a glare, that basically says "What are you going to do, or lets see you handle me now". Nothing is more powerful when you look them back with that glare, and respond with a glare of you own and answer them wittingly. And not by agreeing with them on what they say like some of these self proclaimed AFC/poser players. You know, girl says, oh your hair looks greasy is that some walmart hair gel? AFC player would say: Oh yeah it is I bought it cause it was cheap, im a baby back bitch...etc. or "Your making fun of me, You dirty %$#@^^ profanities"

    First of all I wouldnt even let it bother me, thats key, even if they are taking a "low-blow" at your character and its totally made up to rip on you, act like its nothing...even flip it back on them, even fib it up back at them .."oh your looking at my hair now, I just saw you looking at my arms and crouch now its my hair?"

    BTW what did she say to you that had you stumped?

  4. #4
    lenric's Avatar
    lenric is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,302, Level: 41
    Level completed: 76%, Points required for next Level: 48
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    597
    Points
    4,302
    Level
    41
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts
    Rep Power
    208

    Default Re: How to respond to girls negging YOU

    Quite simple.

    "Oooohhh look at you making jokes and all, you're so cute! Hi5 for the effort!" In a playful way obviously and a smirk.

  5. #5
    Suave Kino's Avatar
    Suave Kino is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 12,701, Level: 73
    Level completed: 63%, Points required for next Level: 149
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Albuquerque, NM
    Posts
    612
    Points
    12,701
    Level
    73
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    542

    Default Re: How to respond to girls negging YOU

    Quote Originally Posted by thegreatcucumber View Post
    Last night I was approached by an HB9 after I raised my value in a bar stealthily. However, she was negging the sh1t out of me. Clearly being playful, but I didn't know how to respond to a lot of it. Are you supposed to respond to a neg with a neg?
    Like this:

    Kino's How to Handle an Insult

  6. #6
    hometownextra's Avatar
    hometownextra is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 3,580, Level: 37
    Level completed: 54%, Points required for next Level: 70
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Location
    Appleton, WI
    Posts
    619
    Points
    3,580
    Level
    37
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    178

    Default Re: How to respond to girls negging YOU

    I stand behind Kino's guide it is good info packed into one easy to handle post
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


Similar Threads

  1. Negging LSE Girls From a Place of HV
    By Cody in forum Members Lounge
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 11-14-2012, 09:45 PM
  2. How to respond to girls online (to keep them interested)
    By Totallydude in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 09-02-2012, 11:27 PM
  3. Having trouble with POF. How do I get girls to respond by email asap?
    By MoonlightsHaven in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 07-28-2012, 03:11 PM
  4. Do some girls not respond to negs/teasing?
    By OptimusZero in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 04-30-2011, 12:31 PM
  5. Best respond when girls disqualify you?
    By slumlord in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 02-16-2011, 08:53 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com