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    Default Daygaming went wrong

    Yesterday daygaming went wrong!!!! I don't have Approach Anxiety anymore but I'm afraid of people seeing me talking to the girls.... Ugh I felt like everyone's eyes was on me when I tried to talk to some girl.... Is that still considered approach anxiety? Help

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    Eff what they think likely depending on the girl they are wishing they had the balls to even approach the girlies. It is aa but it isn't. It is more of just social anxiety. Just remember society would rather you settle for the bare minimum that you will take to be content. That is true in business and social life. I'd rather not settle for what they think. I'd rather go out and get what I want and be glorified as they stand and watch as I take what I want.
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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    I get the same feeling too. I find that it's easier to approach in busy places like malls. Quiet stores have a really weird feel when you try to game girls there, like everyone's looking at you.

    However, I have noticed that after doing a lot of day game approaches, night game approaches are like a piece cake! No Approach Anxiety at all!

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    Sometimes you have to crawl before you can walk, and walk before you can run. Like was said earlier, day game will ultimately make night game more comfortable. Use each attempt as an experience to build from, especially when you can put the blinders on and disregard the environment outside of you and your target.

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    I know like I was pretty mad because couple of girls were giving me the look and I couldn't approach them because I felt like people would laugh and be like "he's a weirdo"

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    Cannot win them all, you could try messing with appearances a little or it may be body language related. If it is best way to find out have someone follow from distance and video tape your body language if someone asked it is for high school/ college project social sciences or public speaking or make up some good story.if you can maybe get a girl to record it just say you think you have a stalker.

    Either way I know one of my worst sticking points is I am good for a while until I get comfortable then too comfortable slip up on body language and then blown out of the water or no longerthe life of the party
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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    Here's a situation: I'm with my friend and see a HB 7 walk by and at first I'm about to approach her( for some reason now I don't have aa at all) so I'm walking up to her then I see a group of people walking down the escalator and I suddenly stop and go back to my friends... Someone said it's social anxiety

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    Yeah bro, it is social anxiety. Quite frankly eff what other ppl think of you. Atleast you have the balls to approach. They say be the observed and not the observer. Atleast you being observed, you the shit man and you shouldn't care what the people observing think. And to be honest, people also don't really care what you do, they minding their own business most of the time. Hope you get over this sticking point.

    GAME ON!!!

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    Default Re: Daygaming went wrong

    I find it helps to re frame the situation. What I think is NO, everyone thinks im awesome and courageous. The more people who see me do what Im doing the more momentum I get. Look at me, approaching, the girl sees this too and she knows im comfortable with the attention.
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.


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