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    Default Opinion Openers Feedback Please!

    I need some feedback on this opinion opener I made up. It is really unique to me so it is very congruent when I deliver it. It's based on the fact that my hair going grey prematurely (I am only 23).

    Here it goes:

    "Really quick I need your take on this, my friends are poking fun at me saying I need to dye my hair because I am going grey prematurely. However, a lot of girls are telling me it's attractive. What do you guys think?"

    I field tested this three times yesterday at the mall. First time on a woman (non-HB, but not ugly), second time on a one set of an HB, and the third time a four set of HBs. The four set got particularly chatty about it.

    The first and third attempts I was able to open successfully. The second attempt didn't really open, but I think the approach was bad (she was moving rather quickly).

    I know the opener works because the girls were receptive to it and one of the girls in the four set, who was the hottest girl I saw all day, said she thought guys with grey hair were sexy.

    My concern with this though is that I wonder if it could give me an insecure vibe since I am a newb and my game isn't tight yet. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Opinion Openers Feedback Please!

    It does seem needy because you are asking them questions about yourself. It will definitely put there b* tch shield down but you are likely to be friendzoned. You should try to ask more questions about themselves after if you try that type of approach.

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    Default Re: Opinion Openers Feedback Please!

    Quote Originally Posted by Testament View Post
    It does seem needy because you are asking them questions about yourself. It will definitely put there b* tch shield down but you are likely to be friendzoned. You should try to ask more questions about themselves after if you try that type of approach.
    Yea I was thinking the same. While I am not insecure at all about my early greying, the fact that I am asking could cause problems.

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    Default Re: Opinion Openers Feedback Please!

    Telegraphing your interest strongly is not a good idea most of the time.

    Instead of using it as an opener, use it as part of your mid game.


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