Ways of Improving Banter/Flirting/Conversation
A while back I realized that even If I'm very confident in my approach, and have good body language, it's all for naught if nothing interesting/engaging/witty/sexy comes out of my mouth. I mostly get stuck in boring/polite conversation. So here is how I'm trying to improve my conversation skills, please let me know If I could be doing anything different
1) I realized that due to some reasons/problems in my life...I'm not a very happy person right now. I used to be more fun/outgoing, so I'm trying to get back to that point by smiling more, making jokes with customers, trying witty responses and just being nicer. Good news is that...It's working
2) I realized that my biggest problem comes from not having any conversation material. I don't watch any TV and my jokes are mostly inside jokes I have with my friends. So I need to watch some comedy to get some material/ideas and start building my base (so to speak). I think "Brand X with Russell Brand" is really good, and the guy shows good ways to neg the ladies in a funny way. Ex "I'm going to sit with you, you look like a gorgeous, sexy chair"
Again, I am looking to the community for advice/critique so...fire away
Last edited by KristiBell; 05-07-2013 at 02:45 PM.
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