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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    That is why the magic of multiple pursuits is helpful. Then you are able to keep busy finding something better to do. If she doesn't want to do anything then too bad her loss and also makes you appear less rattled because by affect you are.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    IMHO... a dry text like "hey there" has bad results. Unless you already F closed her and have that type of relationship... Your first texts are the most important ones. You could have went straight for the movie date

    "so a little birdy told me you want to see iron man 3 with me at 8:00 this Saturday, we must not disappoint the little birdy "

    OR

    "Wakey Wakey nerd! What you got going on today?"

    Point is... Your texts should convey your confidence and sense of humor.

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Quote Originally Posted by ItsJaySonic View Post
    IMHO... a dry text like "hey there" has bad results. Unless you already F closed her and have that type of relationship... Your first texts are the most important ones. You could have went straight for the movie date

    "so a little birdy told me you want to see iron man 3 with me at 8:00 this Saturday, we must not disappoint the little birdy "

    OR

    "Wakey Wakey nerd! What you got going on today?"

    Point is... Your texts should convey your confidence and sense of humor.
    I'm never following that texting guide again.

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Ok, I called her.

    After two rings she hung up and texted me "sorry in a movie"

    So I waited an hour and a half and texted "wanna hit up yogurt mountain tonight?"

    She responded 3 hours later with "I would but I'm not getting in town until 12"

    Is she hinting at rejection or should I keep playing this?

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Id say its time to find a new girl to text or get to know. Maybe text this one in a week to see whats going on. Let her come to you. And like hometownextra said, its her loss if she doesn't take the initiative to text you back at some point.
    If you hesitate, you masterbate

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    But the texting guide is whee I learned most of my moves lol. A few simple rules that work for me...

    1. Lag on responding, unless you guys are rapid fire texting, then go with the flow. Momentum is you ur best friend.
    2. Avoid boring sh1t like "hey" or "how was ur day"... I can't stress that enough.
    3. When setting up dates, tell her... Don't ask her. If she declines playfully tease her a bit but show it does not bother you.

    AFC scenario:

    You: hey there
    Her: hi
    You: would you wanna go to the movies with me sometime?
    Her: (after hours of nothing) bs made up flake story
    You: masturbate (lol)

    PUA scenario

    You: happy Thursday you little troublemaker
    Her: haha noo not me! happy Thursday!
    You: so that new movie (name) looks pretty intense, I need someone to hold me while I watch it. 8:00 tomorrow night... K thanks
    Her: accept/decline


    Now whether or not she accepts you have demonstrated confidence, value, and a sense of humor. The AFC scenario is pretty much screwed if she declines because he put him self out on a limb for her.

    After a decline freeze her for a few days, most likely she will try you or be very responsive to your next text.

    The guide was written by men far better then me at this... But take what bits and pieces work for you. My game is a hybrid of all the material I've read and my own style.

    As for this chick... Ditch her.... Wait a week and drive by text her. I. E.

    "Have an amazing weekend pretty lady "

    Sorry for the long post but I'm bored waiting for traffic to die down haha. Goodluck

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Quote Originally Posted by ItsJaySonic View Post
    But the texting guide is whee I learned most of my moves lol. A few simple rules that work for me...

    1. Lag on responding, unless you guys are rapid fire texting, then go with the flow. Momentum is you ur best friend.
    2. Avoid boring sh1t like "hey" or "how was ur day"... I can't stress that enough.
    3. When setting up dates, tell her... Don't ask her. If she declines playfully tease her a bit but show it does not bother you.

    AFC scenario:

    You: hey there
    Her: hi
    You: would you wanna go to the movies with me sometime?
    Her: (after hours of nothing) bs made up flake story
    You: masturbate (lol)

    PUA scenario

    You: happy Thursday you little troublemaker
    Her: haha noo not me! happy Thursday!
    You: so that new movie (name) looks pretty intense, I need someone to hold me while I watch it. 8:00 tomorrow night... K thanks
    Her: accept/decline


    Now whether or not she accepts you have demonstrated confidence, value, and a sense of humor. The AFC scenario is pretty much screwed if she declines because he put him self out on a limb for her.

    After a decline freeze her for a few days, most likely she will try you or be very responsive to your next text.

    The guide was written by men far better then me at this... But take what bits and pieces work for you. My game is a hybrid of all the material I've read and my own style.

    As for this chick... Ditch her.... Wait a week and drive by text her. I. E.

    "Have an amazing weekend pretty lady "

    Sorry for the long post but I'm bored waiting for traffic to die down haha. Goodluck
    The texting guide says that you should wait 3 days and text "hey there "

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Well... Like I said I used what I like from it... And added some of my own stuff.

    Anyway I don't like bland texts, and I try not to ever use them until after I F-close

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Ok, update.

    She kept responding to my texts in hours long increments, I eventually told her to hit me up when she wants to hang out. She said that she was free next week between classes so I told her to name a time and day.

    She said Monday after 8, BUT, she said that her friend and my wingman should come. I said okay obviously and set it for 8:33 and she laughed. We're going out for ice cream.

    How should I handle this? It is not going to be one on one and it will be hard to Isolate her. Also it's monday night on a school night so inviting her back to my place might not be an option. Should I just tell dhv stories and build attraction?

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    Default Re: Talked with an HB8 at bar for over an hour, kino escalation but no kiss

    Update:

    This HB was a complete failure. We had the double date planned but her friend flaked out and she said forgot she has "late practice" on mondays, so I asked her "what about teusdays." No response.

    Complete rejection, what did I do wrong?


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