I feel tired to dhv, as I feel DHV is trying to pretend to be what you are not.
I am a short man. My shortness can be an overriding reason for women to reject me. You may say that not all women will reject a short man,true, if I try to meet 100 girls, maybe 2 or 3 will not reject me because of my shortness, but realistically/economically speaking, it is not cost-effective/worthwhile.
You may say that I should have self-confidence. No, It is not about self-confidence. I just view it realistically/objectively. One girl even expressly told me, "You are confident, which is good, but I still can't accept you, because you are short, I can't accept your shortness. Sorry for that."