I had some drinks with some friends tonight. A friend in my building had three female friends over and her boyfriend and a sister of one of the friends. I am not attracted to any of the three friends but the sister is cute.
I did a good job of maintaining a frame, carrying the converstation and everyone was having fun because of me. The sister didn't come in till the end of the night. (hour before everyone left) We where all locked in place at this point sitting on couches.
My question is how do I do Kino when everyone is sitting. And how do I engage the girl. I couldn't get ioi's out of her because she was outside the group and I couldn't neg her because she didn't participate. She was happy just watching.
The next meeting with the sister will be one of two things. Either another hang out time in a group or running into her in the hall. (she lives in my building)
What should I do in a Hang out situation and what should I do if I run into her in the hall.
How do I do Kino when the girl comes after everyone is sitting and standing feels out of place. I would have to stand, walk over to the girl then do Kino.