So this happened like prob midway through the semester and now the semesters over:
Im taking accounting 1 because it's completely outside my major and stuff despite being a junior so yeah most of the kids are Freshman I think. I see this hot girl who looks like a model from afar: brunette with blonde streaks or blonde (cant tell but I think its dyed). She has a nice body and nice fashion sense and seems to be in a sorority so that tells me theres a good chance she thinks shes the top dog and better than me and most other guys. So yeah Im kinda intimidated. Sorority girls intimidate me since Im scared they'll give me the disgusted or 'im better than you' reaction. (I have gone direct and upfront from the start as I prefer since they dont know wtf I want if I ask them for the time and Ive never met them before)
Throughout the semester, I see she is being talked to by random dudes (mostly, white dudes). It seems they dont know her but have somehow weaseled their way in to sit next to her and keep going indirect as fk: "Do you know when the quiz is?" "What did he say about liabilities in the financial statement?"
She isn't having it and starts sitting elsewhere and by midsemester her and all the other hot girls in the class have stopped coming to class. Anyhow before she started skipping, I kinda waited until class was over then tried to talk to her alone, which was fking hard since theres always people around in college. Luck was on my side and after like 2 annoying minutes, she was walking outside the building alone to wherever shes going. I went up to her pretty confidently and said Hi. She turned and looked at me with a face now I recall to be amused, interested, smiling, slightly surprised like 'oooh whos this cute asian coming up to me, Ive never been approached by one before" Then I froze up and Im thinking in my head ("FK. If I go direct telling her shes good looking or something and it goes bad, Im going to be in a horribly awkward place in class") or something like that. I freeze up and in that split second I somehow switch to indirect and go "what kind of shoes are those?" and point to her feet. I then realize they were the most common girl shoe brand ever: Uggs. I say "oh theyre uggs." Now, she's like 'yeah..." and she's feeling uneasy and she turns her face away from me. and I'm like "yeah.... thanks" and I run away pretending I have to go somewhere important so I kind of walk fast. Damn dude.
Anyhow, that's how I perceived it. Maybe I was imagining the whole thing and she was creeped out from the start but I really remember her being interested at the start.
I also remember thinking she wasnt that good looking as I thought when she turned to face me but that just might be an excuse.
Aftermath: Comes to class a few more times. One time she gave a blatant stare at me after class. Not sure what it was but kinda like a slightly interested, what do you want from me? stare. I dunno. Then after that, I don't think she ever stared at me again. She zipped right out of class when it finished and stopped coming. Isn't the first time either: I dont see any further signs of interest for me fairly soon after or maybe I just imagined their interest in the first place. Maybe it's just because they have lives with abundance of guys (Im guessing they meet enough guys at sorority parties) so dont care or just give up because theres no way theyd approach me? Or maybe I just fked it up somehow.
(same thing happened in another class but it was like a model-like girl in a sorority and I think she was giving me signs she was into me but she was like always surrounded by other guys and girls like ALL the time so I never got a chance to talk to her and eventually she stopped completely with any signs. There was one single chance to approach her but at the time I was kind of disgusted in her because I know dudes who will pounce on girls the one chance that they get and I was just disgusted in the fact how she was always surrounded by these guys that appeared to be hitting on her and she'd probably would probably just lump me in with the pack)
Today, she was at this review session. I pretended not to notice her and she pretty much pretended not to notice me or maybe just didnt notice me even though I sat right behind her. Funny enough, a worse-looking but buffer asian dude was doing the indirect stuff again with the 'do you know how the liabilities work in this statement?' or at least thats what it appeared. Again, I was too far to really hear all the distinct words. She seemed fairly nice with her first response and then was not having it at all, the dude quickly stopped and started asking a white guy who was like 2 seats away other questions instead. He kinda put himself up for failure by being semi-nervous and giving up easily even though it appeared 'confident', you could sense a bit of unease. I got to thinking: damn this stuff is hard. Being 'confident' is just not enough. There are plenty of confident, good looking frat,sport,or buff guys in here talking confidently, not giving a f***, or making jokes in class. She's not really even noticing. You really have to go up and express interest to her and have some sort of game and skill with words and conversation for her to have interest. Unless you have game like thaddeus peuterschmidt, I dunno, just asking her stupid questions ain't going to lead nowhere.
I think there's a good chance we wouldve had nothing in common: she prob doesn't even know how a video game works, and probably knows a lot more about sororities and parties and social networking than me, but from my experience, that doesn't really matter when you have game. We could've still been good friends. But I do know as I am now: I tried and failed so my only regret is not trying harder and digging deeper when I did open her. Maybe I shouldve gone direct and just told her she looked nice. I dunno. But then again, like 99% of people Ive seen go indirect and it works so I just need to work talking to her.