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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    So pretty much what I've decided from this sh*t is that i'm done. it's unbelievable that a girl can communicate interest and then inexplicably never want to hang out again. i played it slow and it still didn't work out.
    i wish i could just ask this chick what her problem is.

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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    So she text me a few hours later:
    "let me know how it is!"
    i messed around with her and told her it was the greatest night of my life, and that her life will never be the same now.
    she said.. "haha well thanks "
    to which i said have a good night to end the conversation

    i leave the country for 3 months in 2 days...any quick advice as to anything i could/should do? I can't shake the feeling that she's interested but she's also giving a lot of signs of disinterest (like always being busy). would ignoring until i return in a few months be best? should i message her before i leave? any help would be awesome. i've never been this confused before.

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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    Yes. Game over, because you think game over.

    Right there on the spot when you said free after 7, was a good time to say. "I can get you at 8, we'll head to xxx and do xxx."

    That's real plans ^.

    Then you can say the day of something like. "xxx tonight " The day of.

    Movies? Friends? Maybe she wanted to be alone. Movies is a horrible date, no talking, just two people sitting awkwardly.

    It's been a couple hard swings though. I may let her initiate the next convo. She will if she's interested.

    Duke knows what he's talking about... do your best and learn!

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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    you're totally right, thanks!
    I've been pretty torn between telling her 'you should meet me at xxx at xx tomorrow if you want' (last day in the country) or just ignoring her all together until i get back in 3 months. Still not sure what'd be best?

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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    I've been talking to this girl for two weeks, who is leaving for a few months on Friday. Pretty sure she wants to see me, but things have come up on both ends and we haven't been able to hang out.

    I've been making the effort lately so I'm putting it on her to re-initiate contact before she leaves (which I think she will). If not, I'm going to go out tomorrow, and talk to new girls anyways.

    I'm stubborn though so maybe you should make another attempt. But, "Hey (name of girl)! Tomorrow's my last day here before my super boring summer begins in xxx :P, was thinking we should hang out tonight before I go (can't be out too late), how does meeting at xxx sound?"

    I like ^ better because you can't really reject a suggestion (we should). "If you want" sounds "beta" to me. The "can't be out too late" is a false time constraint as well, to make her more inclined to go.

    Ya know what... on second thought I'll make an extra attempt at my girl as well haha

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    Default Re: Mixed Messages, Limited Time

    So yeah I tried and failed. She said she was about to go meet her parents cause she's moving out today.
    That ship's sailed. Live and learn (or try again when I'm drunk one night in the fall)


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