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    Default Capitalize on the refusal to kiss?

    Hey everyone, I had a date with a girl earlier and when I went in for the kiss she denied. It was a first get together so I don't think it's a big deal. I played it off cool/funny but I was thinking of texting her:
    "hey I had good time earlier, especially you rejecting my advances was a funny touch at the end " what do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Capitalize on the refusal to kiss?

    Don't know, has the potential for disaster. If she takes it in wrong context you look very beta and needy. Also announces that you are running game on her.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Capitalize on the refusal to kiss?

    Quote Originally Posted by rockd View Post
    Hey everyone, I had a date with a girl earlier and when I went in for the kiss she denied. It was a first get together so I don't think it's a big deal. I played it off cool/funny but I was thinking of texting her:
    "hey I had good time earlier, especially you rejecting my advances was a funny touch at the end " what do you guys think?
    Stating it in any form means that you acknowledged it. You don't want to acknowledge the rejection at all. Just act like nothing happened, and try again next time. No need to send her any needy text either. Just wait a day or 2 and then start texting her again. I make it a point to tell every girl I hang out with that I had a good time when I'm dropping them off. That way I don't feel obligated to send them that text. Just play it cool You took her out, now it's time to just let it sink in.

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    Default Re: Capitalize on the refusal to kiss?

    Quote Originally Posted by rockd View Post
    Hey everyone, I had a date with a girl earlier and when I went in for the kiss she denied. It was a first get together so I don't think it's a big deal. I played it off cool/funny but I was thinking of texting her:
    "hey I had good time earlier, especially you rejecting my advances was a funny touch at the end
    " what do you guys think?
    That would be a very AFC thing to do. You are validating her behavior by rewarding her with a text acknowledging that.

    Let her wait several days before texting her. Her mind will wonder why you haven't called or texted. When you do text her back just text her something random that has nothing to do with the date.

    Remember you are the prize and that girls are like buses. If you miss one there is another coming by a short time later.

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    Default Re: Capitalize on the refusal to kiss?

    I agree, I ended up not sending her that text. During the time it seemed like a good idea but now that I am not in that situation I'm thinking a little more clearly about it. Too much risk and not a lot of reward.


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