like instead of talking fast to try and impress the girl when you're talking to her, you slow down and take your time, so she can be drawn in by every word you say, no knowing when or what you're going to say next. nervous poeple talk fast because they are afraid that the other person is going to get bored and loose interest. while the people who talk slow know that every word they are saying is important and it doesn't matter how long it takes them to say it, the other person is going to listen. and it's their lost if they don't