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Thread: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

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    Default Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    I've seen some gradual changes in my game lately. I use to want to talk a lot when interacting with women to demostrate myself to them but lately I only say and few words and the ladies spill their guts out to me and only continue the conversation by mirroring what they have said and using things that I deem important and can keep the interaction going. My eye contact has also improve. I can tell that it build attraction in the women when I constantly have a straight eye contact with them( letting them know I'm on the seem page as them and that I understand/listening to them.) both my eye contact and less talking has improved and helped me out lately. So I think I'm ready to move on. Any new tips for me/advice? And don't worry I'll still continue to improve the eye contact and less talking. Anyways do you guys have any new tips for me that I should work on?
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    I'd work on the "wow" factor. Like when she does or says something really unique about herself you have to be surprised and thrown off by it. Show her that you haven't met someone like her before. Then accuse her of using that on other guys. Helps to shape it that she's actually picking YOU up.
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    Alright .. But won't that be considering a little bit of chasing/ trying to kiss up to her? I use it sometimes when I really mean it but anything else I consider it to be plain Jane
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    If you're in conversation and she's trying to impress you then I don't see how it's kissing up to her. Plus you calibrate by teasing her after telling her that you haven't met someone like that before. This is qualifying her. But only after you've built attraction.
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    Hmmmmm.. Good, sounds good. Alright right now I'm listening to vince kelvin's podcast and he's talking about being dependent.. Sometimes I am and other times I'm like Linsey lowhan and drugs
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    Doing what Batman said can be pulled off very easily if you have the right kind of body language and tonality. As a matter of fact, you're given a lot of leeway between needy and not needy if you have good body language and the right tonality. Practice those next.

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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    Alright body language and tonality. ( I read an article about tonality.) it's a pua website and it talks about how you should talk slow . ( I forgot the rest)
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    It's not necessarily about talking slow, it's talking like you're calm and not anxious. Part of painting the overall "confidence" picture is based on your tone. If you're talking fast, most of the time it's coming from a place of nervousness which shows a lack of confidence. It's very easy to practice tonality. Just put your confident voice on right now and start talking like that, no matter who you're talking to. Speak calmly and as clearly as possible. To get it down perfect though will require some in field experience. You just have to go out and practice your tone. This actually goes hand in hand with being unreactive. That is slightly more advanced than tonality though, so once you think you have a firm grip on tonality and body language, practice being unreactive.

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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    alright.. tomorrow i plan on going to school in my basketball shorts and a tee just to see people reaction. but i've been doing the tonality, slow and calm thing and it works. lmao i can feel the girls mind farking me when i do it( they are constantly staring into my eyes)
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    Default Re: Think I'm ready to go up a notch now.. New tips needed

    What is the "Tonality, slow and calm thing" You're talking about ?


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