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    Default Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    When I meet a beautiful female stranger, I'm often aware that I am a short man and I canít match her, so I feel self-conscious and awkward. Oftentimes the girls will notice my uneasiness. Please help!

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    I am often intimidated by a girl's tallness or beautiful appearance. When I see a beautiful girl, on one hand, I can't help sneakingly fantasizing the possibility of having sex with her; on the other hand, I feel that my fantasy is dirty.

    I also feel self-pity because I know that there is little possibility for me to have sex with her. Then I feel I am a loser in men-women aspect.



    As a result, I feel very unnatural/uneasy when a beautiful is around me. My uneasiness must also affect the beautiful girl's response to me. She may think, "What's wrong? What's wrong with me? I feel that you're feeling uncomfortable. Are you fantasizing about having sex with me? What an obscene man!" With that realization, I feel more obnoxious about myself.

    I feel intimidated when a beautiful tall girl is in close proximity to me. And I think I can save me a lot of discomfort by withholding my desire(to get the girl).

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    When we eye-contact each other, and I don't find that she is smiling, I won't smile, either because I think if I smile, then I will be perceived as weird or cheeky, I don't want people to think of me that way. Please help.

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    I feel that smiling will consume my energy, and I feel that I don't have a lot of energy, I want to preserve my energy, so I don't like to smile when I don't feel energetic. Please advise, thank you.

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    Smiling will consume your energy? :/ do you ever re read your posts and realise how idiotic you sound?

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    1) stop replying to your own posts.

    2) I think you actually need to get professional help with this. You seem to have a very serious psychological issue with sex, intimacy and women. You seem to view the whole act as impure and evil or something. Thus, I really do think you should see a professional as it's clear none of us are actually getting through to you.

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    Yes mate, smiling will consume your energy and talking too. If you walk, you'll consume even more energy. Smiling wastes probably 40 calories per hour, it's good if you want to lose fat! Also, it works your facial muscles.

    My advice? If you want to lose fat, walk and smile at the same time. If you want to build up muscle, sit yourself on your couch every day 24h a day smiling.


    Or gain some fucking common sense and get out there and start having a good time with yourself, doing whatever the fuck you want and living a life worth living, instead of being another brick in the wall!

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    Look it this way. I've been working on my inner game. I just spoke out the limiting beliefs or thoughts that get in the way of my game. If I didn't have any limiting belief or thought at the present time, I would already be a PUA. I think more of inner game than outer game. Also I have been working on the motivation. I believe that I am not alone, other people may share some of limiting beliefs or thoughts which are the same as me.

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    Look it this way. I've been working on my inner game. I just spoke out the limiting beliefs or thoughts that get in the way of my game. If I didn't have any limiting belief or thought at the present time, I would already be a PUA. I think more of inner game than outer game. Also I have been working on the motivation. I believe that I am not alone, other people may share some of limiting beliefs or thoughts which are the same as me.
    No that's not what I read, you have this issue with sexual intimacy and you seem to think it's wrong. Are you a virgin? What's your sexual experience thus far.

    I sunk very low as an AFC and I've seen plenty lower during my time here, but believe me when I tell you that the stuff you're coming out with i.e
    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    I can't help sneakingly fantasizing the possibility of having sex with her; on the other hand, I feel that my fantasy is dirty.
    is not normal.

    I'm not saying that to be cruel I'm saying it because I actually think you have a serious issue here.... thinking sex is immoral or dirty or unnatural is not a natural healthy attitude and if you don't fix it, it WILL hold you back for the rest of you life.

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    Default Re: Inner game: Smile to beautiful female strangers

    it is not as extreme as you might think.I just want to complete rule out my limiting beliefs. Actually I I feel that attracting the opposite sex is the only area of my life in which I feel like that I have not yet become successful. I am moderately successful in other areas of my life.
    I am exceptionally successful in living a happy life. Yes, I live a happy life, even without girls. If I am good at attracting the opposite sex, that will be icing on the cake.


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