There is this girl that works at the desk of gym that I like. I'm not quite sure if this is Hired Gun territory or not, but I am leaning towards no. Anyways, I have pretty good social proof at my gym, the owner and almost all the staff knows me by name and I have conversations with them too.
I worked on some really light rapport with this girl just so I have something to work with, but I am guessing I shouldn't go much further in rapport until I get some stronger IOIs? As of now the IOIs I got were kind of weak, she giggles and smiles when I talk to her and she asked my age and what I do for work. That's about it. She's contributing a little bit to the conversation, but she has yet to contribute a lot or start a conversation with me (unless she needs me to check the mens room to see if anyone is in there so she can clean it). She also knew what time I would come in before I started talking to her.
Here is my plan:
1. Increase Social Proof even more. This way I can bring up social connections in conversation with her and her co-workers so it sorta seems like I am in her social circle.
2. Run a lot of dhv routines. I'm thinking a lot of funny stories and places I traveled too? She is also preparing for a bikini competition and since I am very well versed in exercise and dieting I thought I'd share my thoughts and opinions on that matter.
I think I want to do those until I get more IOIs. The big one I'm waiting for is for her is for her to ask me what my name is. While she's asked me before it was only after I asked her and it was a long time ago. She never addresses me by name, so i am assuming she doesn't remember it. I'll keep my eye out for other ones too.
Anybody got any DHV routines that would be appropriate for the situation. Maybe I should Cube her or should I save it for later?
Please tell me if I am doing anything wrong or if I can be doing something else on top of it. I am sarging and approaching other women to improve my general game, but this is a long term sarge that I want to work on.