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    Maus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Apporaching out of the blue

    Hello!

    So I have no problem with talking to women - once I've started that's easy enough. Most people with half a brain can hold a conversation.

    It's the approach I find hard - if I'm in a club and I see some girl I want, half the time I'll make excuses as to why I won't go up to her and start a conversation.

    Rest assured, starting conversations with girls I already know is easy. I even find that in closer social situations (e.g. birthday parties and weddings) it's easier to approach than in looser situations (e.g. walking down the street or at a popular nightclub).

    What did you guys do to get over making excuses? This is a failure that I must expunge!

    ADDENUM: I tried doing the whole 'Hey my friend and I were just wondering...' style of openers. eugh! they sound so cheesy! we've tried them at least 40 times and I feel I always have to brush my teeth when i get home! seriuously! It may work for some guys but not me - any other openers you guys have had success with?

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    Default Re: Apporaching out of the blue

    It seems like we;re thinking too hard and it's a lot simpler.

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    Default Re: Apporaching out of the blue

    There are some daygame videos on the daygame youtube channel. I've watched a couple and those guys don't seem to do anything spectacular. Both guys walked up to the girl and simply said "Excuse me, I know this is a bit weird but I saw you, and you looked nice so I wanted to come up and say hello. I'll tell you what you noticed about you..." They then make a comment about what they observed about the girl and then just started painting a picture through questions of who they were.

    Seemed quite direct to me, but if you play it confidently it seems to work well.

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    Mikalichov is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Apporaching out of the blue

    This is my new objective, any input on this would be awesome.

    - does it happen to do the whole "hey I saw you and you looked hot" and she says "well, duh!" ?

    - after the whole "you looked hot", you move to talk about something you liked, and then conversation, right? any tips on what to speak about?

    - as a non-native english speaker in the US, what's the difference between "you looked hot/pretty/gorgeous/nice"? Is one better than the others?
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Bballking is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Apporaching out of the blue

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    This is my new objective, any input on this would be awesome.

    - does it happen to do the whole "hey I saw you and you looked hot" and she says "well, duh!" ?

    - after the whole "you looked hot", you move to talk about something you liked, and then conversation, right? any tips on what to speak about?

    - as a non-native english speaker in the US, what's the difference between "you looked hot/pretty/gorgeous/nice"? Is one better than the others?
    If she is quite hot or gorgeous, definitely go with nice. If she's a 7 or maybe an 8 than you might get away with pretty or gorgeous. One thing I always think about when saying to a hot girl she is hot is how would you feel if someone walked up and was in awe by your biceps. "Holy crap man, those are huge, I just had to come over and see whats up." It throws ya for a loop right away and immediately your thinking, 'whats this person want from me? get away.' Especially if you do have big arms. If you have no biceps (like me haha) then it might pass as a nice compliment.


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