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    Default A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    I find that it is very difficult to give a correct smile to a beautiful female stranger. I feel that sometimes the smile I give to a beautiful female stranger is creepy, or weak, or lustful,or unnatural/awkward, or self-conscious, or uneasy, or suspicious. I know that it reflects my Mindset at that moment. What unspoken words/message should I convey by smiling to a beautiful female stranger?

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    The correct smile is to convey that you are attractive, charming, confident,friendly,a ffinitive, easygoing, living a pleasant life. It is to convey what kind of person you are, and it is all about yourself, and it doesn't have anything about her, it doesn't signal your interest in her. It demonstrates your high values and you don't sexually desire her(your desirelessness). We should learn to use subtle ways to demonstrate our high values. The more subtle, the better.

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    When I am walking I smile and nod at people who are walking the other way.

    My walk is not slow and not fast. A nice medium pace with my chest out , arms at my side. Swinging my arms gently as I walk and taking up more room .

    Practice your body language. It makes a huge difference. A smile just makes you more approachable.

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    It show you're a confident guy which is not impress by her (even if it's the case), and push her to smile you in back.

    There a lot of thing you can also do to show her you're confident :
    don't lean at her, speak louder and don't break the eye contact (at least until you tell her the compliment, if you use Direct Game), don't go up when your talk, keep your voice tonality flat or go low.

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    Below is a dialogue between a friend and me:
    Me: I don't want to smile to girls.
    Friend: Why don't you want to smile to girls?
    I don't want to do that.
    Why don't you want to do that?
    I want to avoid attention.
    Why do you want to avoid attention?
    I don't want to incur attention.
    Why don't you want to incur attention?
    I don't want to incur it.
    Why don't you want to incur it?
    I want to keep a low profile.
    Why do you want to keep a low profile?
    I feel more comfortable to keep a low profile.
    Why do you feel more comfortable to keep a low profile?
    I want to be neglected.
    Why do you want to be neglected?
    I don't want attention.
    Why don't you want attention?
    I don't know.
    Why don't you know?
    I don't know.
    I see.
    Bye.
    Bye.

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    Below is a dialogue between a friend and me:
    Me: I don't want to smile to girls.
    Friend: Why don't you want to smile to girls?
    I don't want to do that.
    Why don't you want to do that?
    I want to avoid attention.
    Why do you want to avoid attention?
    I don't want to incur attention.
    Why don't you want to incur attention?
    I don't want to incur it.
    Why don't you want to incur it?
    I want to keep a low profile.
    Why do you want to keep a low profile?
    I feel more comfortable to keep a low profile.
    Why do you feel more comfortable to keep a low profile?
    I want to be neglected.
    Why do you want to be neglected?
    I don't want attention.
    Why don't you want attention?
    I don't know.
    Why don't you know?
    I don't know.
    I see.
    Bye.
    Bye.
    Your dialogues are extremely stupid. Never do them again for your own sake. If that was actually the convo between you and your friend, you guys seem like bone heads. Heed my advice. Stop with the uninteresting, basic dialogues, that answer no questions.

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    the root of your problems was answered in one of the first threads you started, go look over the insights we gave you - comments sidewinder?

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    Whenever possible you should be smiling, not just when you see a pretty girl. Yea, walking down the street with a scowl on your face and then smile? That isn't going to be something happy all around. When I'm out I tend to be smiling and having a good time regardless so I'm already smiling when I make eye contact.

    That aside, if I don't feel like smiling or approaching I don't. Ever. Period. Which is actually most of the time lately.

    Everyone on here says how you need to always be easy going and fun and the life of the party, but the thing is no one is always those things and you will drive yourself crazy trying to always be.

    Smile with your eyes man, use your SOUL.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    OH FOR FUCKS SAKE

    I'd try to help but I see no point, to be frank we've tired that and you didn't listen. These monologues make no sense! basically the statement was 'I have problems maintaining eye contact' which has been turned into some ridiculous mini-play staring self-pity.

    hyp is right, your question was answered in another thread by many of us at great length. Now either read it and take action to move forward or don't and stop wasting our time...

    rant over!

    P.S. Please no more BS mini-plays!

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    Default Re: A correct smile to a beautiful female stranger

    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    Below is a dialogue between a friend and me:
    Me: I don't want to smile to girls.
    Friend: Why don't you want to smile to girls?
    I don't want to do that.
    Why don't you want to do that?
    I want to avoid attention.
    Why do you want to avoid attention?
    I don't want to incur attention.
    Why don't you want to incur attention?
    I don't want to incur it.
    Why don't you want to incur it?
    I want to keep a low profile.
    Why do you want to keep a low profile?
    I feel more comfortable to keep a low profile.
    Why do you feel more comfortable to keep a low profile?
    I want to be neglected.
    Why do you want to be neglected?
    I don't want attention.
    Why don't you want attention?
    I don't know.
    Why don't you know?
    I don't know.
    I see.
    Bye.
    Bye.
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