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    Default How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    I know that when I interact with girls, I need to be lighthearted and playful. However, apart from interacting with girls, I need to be very logical. So when I talk to a girl, I need to turn off the logical part of my brain and turn on the playful part of my brain. However, easier said than done, I am not used/accustomed to it. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    Treat situations with women as a game rather than a planned out logical process. Don't take it seriously and don't put any thought into it, that's my strategy.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    I struggle with this problem too because I always enjoyed intellectual conversations that is how I like to converse with people.

    I have noticed though that you can really say anything when you are flirting. Girls will have the voice tone and the body language down so I just mirror what they do and pretty much say whatever. Usually I say ridiculous things about myself and tease them about something. As long as you are mirroring them you can say anything.

    I had good results too by making my filter less strict when I talk. You can practice this with anyone, it doesn't have to be HBs. Don't worry about dhv or dlv. Remember, with a strong frame and good body language you can say anything. Just don't say things that are offensive!

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    Default Re: How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    Quote Originally Posted by Loudou View Post
    I struggle with this problem too because I always enjoyed intellectual conversations that is how I like to converse with people.

    I have noticed though that you can really say anything when you are flirting. Girls will have the voice tone and the body language down so I just mirror what they do and pretty much say whatever. Usually I say ridiculous things about myself and tease them about something. As long as you are mirroring them you can say anything.

    I had good results too by making my filter less strict when I talk. You can practice this with anyone, it doesn't have to be HBs. Don't worry about dhv or dlv. Remember, with a strong frame and good body language you can say anything. Just don't say things that are offensive!
    What strong frame? People always say that "keep your frame", I want to know what kind of frame.

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    Default Re: How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    What strong frame? People always say that "keep your frame", I want to know what kind of frame.
    I think the best way to describe your frame is the way you converse based on your relationship. For instance if you were talking to a police officer who's pulled you over you will likely accept his frame. There is certain things you would and wouldn't say to him because he has more power than you and you are accepting his dominance. While he has actual power to back him up, in the field if you can simulate this sort of power if you are good enough. This type of authoritative frame supposedly works well with women. So if you are talking to girl, assume you are an authority figure to her. If you are good enough she will buy into the frame and she will allow you to be the more powerful one in your interaction with her.

    At least this is the way I understand it, I could be wrong though.

    Other frames that people have success with is you assuming she is attracted to you and acting like you are of higher Social Status than her.

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    Default Re: How to turn off the logical part of brain and turn on the playful part

    You: Hey, you're so fucking hot, I'd really make the sweet love with you over this table, but I'm gay, so I'm not supposed to tell you this.

    Her: Ahahahah, you're such a wuss.

    You: Oh look at her, cracking jokes about wuss and all, so cool! Here's a hi5!!

    So you answered her shit test in a way that showed you weren't touchy touchy with her insult... which means she didn't stole your frame, as in, she didn't take you off your cool mode. You kept your frame, so your frame was stronger. You passed her test.

    Moreover, you said a completely ridiculous thing to her to amuse yourself... and while saying that, you expressed sexual interest in her... only to express the opposite the second later. Kind of a push/pull. You were fun, instead of logical. You feel me?

    More on frame control

    http://www.puaforums.com/game/17574-...e-control.html


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