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Thread: Double post about being a confused girl

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    christina.lek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Double post about being a confused girl


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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Its hard for me just because I am a shy person who is bad at meeting new people in general, not just women. It takes me a while to warm up to people idk. Also women, especially attractive women, just seem like they don't want to be bothered by a guy they don't know unless he is like a model. I am new to this stuff but with the few approaches I have made, even the ones just to start a friendly convo with no intention to pick up or game, it was like pulling teeth for the first minute or so to get them actually in a friendly talkative mood and invested in the conversation. That Bitch Shield can be pretty intimidating for a shy person like myself. I am not like an anti social person by any means either I have lots of friends but I just struggle making new friends I guess. That's my two cents.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Aaaaah, i see.! Still, some girls find shy guys really cute! Just try to build some confidence, i'm sure you have a number of nice values in your personality (and if you don't,you can work on them.! After all the better person you become, the better person you will attract) that many girls would love to find in you!
    One more thing, you don't have to be talking all the time..women love to talk and they love good listeners...so you can just work on what questions to start asking them so that they basically will end up doing the talking.!:P

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    -Provided you really are a girl I love it when girls join the forums and put in their 2 cents.
    Here are a list of things:
    -They don't have good inner game, so aa cripples them. In Leiman's terms they wuss out.
    -They don't recognize the ioi's. (Even if their were none a good PUA would still approach though)
    -They don't know what to say after "Hi, my name is x what's yours?"
    -They don't know that it is alright to say "Hi, my name is x what's yours?"
    So basicly they just wuss out.

    -Welcome to the forums.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    hahaha wooowwww that was quite an insightful comment for me.!!:P :P True, sometimes we expect the guy to just do it all....what a shame..!

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    Default Re: I'm a girl-what is that u guys find difficult in approaching a woman?!

    Speaking from past experience here, i guess the main reason for most guys is the fear of failure, they over think the situation and start getting nervous about how stupid they will look if they get rejected. A lot of guys lack confidence to approach girls they find attractive, their heart beats faster and they freeze up. The only way to overcome this is just to accept that their will be failure and not let it knock you down.

    -Zeus


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