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    Default Small town grocery store

    I live in a small town, it has no bars and no clubs. so the next best thing would be a grocery store. I just came out of a 7 year relationship and am trying to pick up the pieces of my confidence and ego. I am also changing my self image on the outside, a lil harder to do on the inside. whats the best way to get noticed at said place? Some good openers would also be helpful. Thanks to all that reply

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    I have been reading that just going out and trying anything that comes to mind just to get confidence talking helps so I have used going to the counter with just some licorice and saying to the clerk you know they put some mighty big flavor in a small package, You Like licorice? yes, no Ok what is your favorite junk food and just start from there. I always try to talk the bank tellers at the drive up windows at banks out of a sucker they keep for kids in cars too, had some good statups with these. Also had some real fast my husband likes those but its giving me courage to talk and open up more in public. I used the whats your favorite junk food at the dentist on a receptionist, made her smile and we talked for 2 minutes on that topic changing to hiding candy from kids and on to the pet with a sweet tooth, try anything and see what else comes up. I am older and coming out of a divorce and have been out of this game for a long time and it has helped me get more confidence to talk to gals using what is at hand.

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    Look at body language, framing and Kino those will help more than any canned dialogue ever will. Non verbals portray more than you could ever hope to convey with words.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    when she is looking at a melon or vegetable tell her, "no that one is bad!" she'll put it down, and then you grab it and say,"haha! it's mine now!"

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    Test gym also. There should be more singles...maybe See what they are buying and figure out what kind of person they are, works in joke way too if your betting is way off.
    Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
    understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
    But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
    recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before
    you and how fabulous you really looked….

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    Default Re: Small town grocery store

    Quote Originally Posted by cowboy728 View Post
    I live in a small town, it has no bars and no clubs. so the next best thing would be a grocery store. I just came out of a 7 year relationship and am trying to pick up the pieces of my confidence and ego. I am also changing my self image on the outside, a lil harder to do on the inside. whats the best way to get noticed at said place? Some good openers would also be helpful. Thanks to all that reply

    I know this might not be the answer you want, but try moving to a bigger city. Preferrably a major area with a lot of Clubs. Such as NYC, Dallas, Denver, LA, Miami, Houston, Atlanta, New Orleans, etc. I have to drive 50 miles into Denver to Pick Up chicks which ain't a bad deal since I used to be 3 hours from Dallas and would never go. I would highly recommend Dallas since the hottest chicks I met this year in Denver were from Dallas. The way this game is run, you will run on momentum and without pushing a high number of volume you will just not learn enough. I still pick up in my local town but the sets are mostly random and hard to sarge in my local area as even in my town of 70,000 it is super hard to find chicks at the store, gym, mall. Just plan your future to move somewhere big. Pick Up is a big thing and I was in Miami and the Clubs really suck there. But the Clubs are great in Denver so I might stick around here for a while but if I move I will definitely move to Dallas since that sounds like the cream of the crop over there! It's just the main Pick Up artists that popularized this stuff such as Mystery Method built a lot of his foundation on Clubs and stuff. Eventually in your 40's you will get it and not really need to go to Clubs but in your 20's and 30's you should start there since it is the best place to learn.

    For instance I started at Clubs and it was the most nerve wrecking thing ever but eventually I got to where I am now which is 101 Sets. Because I did so much Night Game it slowly started to work it's way into my life and I just opened a HB9 customer in the Buckle and got her to come over to me. Normally I never would have even had the confidence to even do that. I am beginning to think once I learn I will eventually start opening more and more randoms during the day in my local area as my confidence gets better.
    101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.


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