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Thread: Why I turned to direct daygame

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    Default Why I turned to direct daygame

    *I wrote this very late one night while I was drunk so apologies if it's just not useful at all!*

    When I first started trying the PUA stuff I was always in night clubs using very convoluted techniques to "hook" women into a conversation that didn't say, as Chriss rock puts it "how 'bout some dick?". It's a sound principle once you've spent hours reciting lines and memorising routines, patterns and then spent weeks or months practicing them on women. Then you might start getting some numbers. I used to think this was magical and the best thing I had learned. Admittedly I got some numbers, But there were a couple of things that bothered me.

    Firstly, I have entered this girl's life seemingly innocently - I was then faced with escalation and transition, calibrating and forgetting the whole thing when something unexpected happened.

    Secondly, Did I really want to date the types of girls I was meeting in the clubs? Every now and then there would be that one girl who's friends dragged her out that night but really didn't belong there. For me, I was looking for different types of girls to the ones surrounding me. You may be happy with the girls you can find in these places, and good for you if that's the case. But give this a go if you haven't already...

    The answer to these issues I found was direct daygame. I was hesitant at first. "What so I just waltz up to a girl in the street, stop her, tell her she's hot and then expect her to not slap me? HAH!" were my exact words... I kind of feel bad for saying that now.

    The first time I tried direct daygame was on a beach. A beach full of men and couples. Me and a friend had set out with the sole intention of day gaming, and have fun while we were doing that. We got to the beach and there were hardly any women that didn't look like they were with boyfriends... Like, it was pretty blatant they were all together. We sat and juggled and sparred for a while until I saw a set of two cute girls sat on their own off to one side. I offered my friend a chance to open them, he was happy to let me bite the bullet. It went as follows....

    Me - *Walked around to the side of them, slightly in front but not comfrontationally... Stood, looking down at them with my sunglasses on* "Hey, sorry to disturb you but I was just sat over there with my friend, from behind you two looked pretty cute so I just had to come over and see if I was right..." *look at both of them for a moment..* "hmm... Yeah you are aren't you." with a soft laugh.

    Them - *blushing* "Aw, thank you." *looking a little nervous.*

    Me - "SO how are you today?" *At this point i took off my sunglasses and crouched in front but off to one side, non confrontationally, looked at one of them* "You look pretty nervous, are you alright?"

    The nervous one - "Yeah.. this just never happens, so....


    And there it is!!! Two hot girls sat on the beach on their own, surrounded by men... And "This never happens." They actually saw my eyes widen and laugh.

    Me - "Honestly? Like.. never?"

    Nervous one - "Well, it's happened like.. a couple of times in my whole life... But I usually told them to fuck off..."

    Me - *playfully*"Ok, so how long have I got before you tell me to fuck off? Minutes? Seconds?"


    They both laugh and look less nervous, then tell me to keep talking. They explained to me that the sort of men that usually hit on them are arrogant and egotistical, whereas I was calm and respectful. They were very open to that. SO much that they invited me to sit with them and enjoy the beach in their company.

    This was the only set we approached that day, give or take a few bad attempts out of desperation to at least make a few approaches to help loosen nerves for future outings. But this one conversation single handedly changed my perspective on direct daygame.

    The next day we went to Bristol city centre and I personally got the numbers of two friends who were together when I approached them, I'm seeing them soon for the date we arranged, And the waitress that served us our lunch, and a lot of hugs, kisses, interesting conversations and most importantly... Confidence!

    I now know that girls aren't used to being hit on in the street, in the shop, in museums, anywhere out in the day time that doesn't involve alcohol and brutes. If I am the only girl that has ever approached that girl sincerely and told her exactly why I approached her, my chances with this girl have just gone up to an astronomical level. Obviously there are other factors like body language, Conversation etc... But when I hit on a girl in a night club I have hit on the same girl as about thirty men that night. I don't think I'll ever head to a club to game again. My game is on the streets.

    I will give you the very simple opener I use, which is actually from Sasha Daygame who is an absolute legend....

    Approach confidently but not intimidatingly, stop to the side but a little in front with a smile....

    "Don't take this the wrong way or anything.. (pause and if possible make a little suspense) But you're really hot(with smile, releasing suspense), so I had to just come over and meet you...!" Continue conversation from there once she's stopped blushing and giggling. I say this to women in many variations now and the response is incredible.

    What convoluted routines? What DHVs? She immediately knows what you want, and most likely she'll like the compliment. Try some daygame if you haven't already, and if you haven't already then try it direct.



    If this concept is new to you, please do try it. I know it's difficult to approach people so direct, and I will be uploading some advice to help build to this sort of open in a graduated way, But please do let us know how it goes in the comments stream.

    Happy daygaming!
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    Default Re: Why I turned to direct daygame

    I was gonna post something about this today. I have been trying Indirect Game and I just don't think it works for me. I get in my head too much and I end up worrying about if I am doing things right or wrong.

    I don't know if my success rate would be high at first, but this way of approaches seems so easy conceptually. I figure I can go out and just do approaches until I find a girl that I seem to click with.

    Is this something I can try even though I am a newb? Also what advice do you have for sets because I never see pretty girls alone?

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    Default Re: Why I turned to direct daygame

    Firstly, I just want to point out that both Sasha and James Marshall (two of the biggest direct daygame seducers around) began this by going out and spending hours upon hours relentlessly approaching girls and getting shot down with no guidance or advice as easily to hand as this forum here. Because of that their styles are sculpted from trial and error experience as opposed to group speculation. I think that's the best way to learn.

    Ok, So yes. Very appropriate for a newb. Very appropriate for anyone. The only way to get good at direct daygame is literally to just go out there and start hitting on women. I'd say only go for girls that you actually desire the end result with, this will drive you. The first bunch are likely to fail, but eh you never know, you might have an ora of confidence that just works. If you don't, you soon will. YOu'll learn that girls like being complimented and they're never approached like this, it'll make you realise that this approach has some element of charm.

    Body language and conversation - these tend to flop when making your first approaches. It's throwing yourself into a situation you're not used to and saying things to girls that you may have thought wouldn't go down too well. When you first learn to ride a bike, you shake and go slow because you have to think about every process. But the more you try the less you think about it until you don't even move your arms to go left, you just go left. Same happens with this, it all starts to become reflexive. Just go out there and persist. And seriously, it's so much fun! And it always makes me laugh when she says "SO what are you doing today?" Sometimes I actually do just turn around and say "well, this..." indicating what's happening between me and her. They're always amazed at the confidence.

    Sets... Now, this is something I still wonder about. I'm trying to set myself into a comfortable way of approaching sets. I always think that if you hit on one, you'll upset the others or they'll pull her away, so you have to address the group, really. I did think about approaching the set and saying something like..

    "Wow, you guys are absolutely beautiful... But I'll let you in on a secret, there is one of you that stopped me, so I thought I'd come over and get to know you all. (then jokingly) but I'm not gonna tell you which one of you it is 'cos I don't want you all fighting over me... yet..." I think said in the right tone could start some friendly banter. Then I'd get conversation flowing with all of them, trying to involve everyone, maybe asking/saying the most flirtatious questions/statements aimed at the one you like. Then eventually, go to one of her friends and ask "Would you mind if I borrow your friend for a moment? I just want to chat with her...(then another joke) don't worry I'm not going to runaway with her or anything, We'll just be here..*point to somewhere close* so you can keep your eye on us..."

    I think this permission thing is powerful for a couple of reasons;

    a. You stand good chance of gaining her friend's approval, which is powerful in this situation.

    b. her friends may end up pushing her to go with you, egging her on, even if to just embarrass her.

    Then if all goes to planyou have a few moments alone, then you're more direct with her, either convince her to go on an Instant Date or arrange a date or whatever you like....


    Like I said, It's been puzzling me and I actually haven't tried that approach yet. Another solution is to approach with a/some wing/s. Then there's a group of you, and a group of them. A good wing man will keep the rest entertained while you hit on the one you like.

    Has this been of any help to you?
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    Default Re: Why I turned to direct daygame

    Yes thats a big help. I think I might give it a shot. I personally have a hard time finding girls by themselves though. Maybe I should drive out to the local university one day and sarge there. Man I wish I discovered pickup in college.


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