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Thread: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

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    Default Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    Ok so I just got back from the mall and I have to say there was a large number of beautiful women.
    Oh the curses of living in south florida

    Many of them were by themselves too, what luck!


    At any rate I have two major questions

    When I do approach a girl I find it easier if she's walking away from me to come up beside her, touch her arm, make eye contact and step around in front of her. (using Sashas daygame approach not my ideas)
    This works great when I come up from behind them.

    Problem is, most of the girls I want to approach are walking past me. (Sadly haven't approached 1 like this yet aa but also I lack technical knowledge)

    Do I just jump in front of them with both hands out in a stopping motion? I didn't want to scare them but I don't know if this works or not I have seen other ppl do this but tbh it's far outside my comfort zone right now.

    Another thing I could do is make eye contact, walk past them, turn around, come up beside them and approach after walking past them?

    Do you have any suggestions I haven't even thought of?

    I haven't tried either of these because I haven't been blown out super bad in broad daylight yet and don't want to come off as "strange"
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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    ive wondered this same question. it seems like it would be strange to approach a girl walking past u. i think the only thing u can do is make eye contact with her while ur walking past and smile. if she smiles back then i would turn right around and stop her. i havent tried this yet but i hope to soon!

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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    Ok, this is awesome you asked this because it might seem like a silly question to a reader that's not been in the situation, but when it happens your mind runs all over it and I myself was asking the same just a few weeks ago. I answered it myself though. Here goes...

    Girl's walking towards/ past me, I notice her, I make a little eye contact but to be honest she's not going to acknowledge it much unless you do something like I'm going to mention later.

    I tend to walk on, passing by, then when I'm out of eye shot Pivot on my heels then head towards her from behind. I know sasha touches the elbow, and gives many lessons on how to do this, but for me I just step around so I'm sort of in front but to the side. But yes I always approach from behind. I'm not saying that's the "correct" way of doing it, there is no correct way as long as you don't wack her or jump out from an alley-way or something. Hope that helps.


    Something that I have wanted to try for a couple of days now is standing among some traffic with a steady flow coming towards me, make eye contact with a girl and try and hold it. If she looks long enough to witness the gesture, lift my hand infront of me and literally just beckon her over. If she takes the bait, say something cocky like..

    "So, were you just checking me out or were you gonna hit on me too?" perhaps not those exact words, not thought it through completely yet, but something that puts pressure on her as though she's hitting on me and not vice versa. I'll probably get a few slaps before I perfect it, but I like how ballsey it is.
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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    I use to be like that, thinking it was best to approach from behind. It was just me over analyzing the situation. I just lock eyes on my target and go after them, no matter where they are. I tend to place a slightly more "surprised" tone in my voice when I approach a girl straight up. It makes it seem more natural.

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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    I use to be like that, thinking it was best to approach from behind. It was just me over analyzing the situation. I just lock eyes on my target and go after them, no matter where they are. I tend to place a slightly more "surprised" tone in my voice when I approach a girl straight up. It makes it seem more natural.
    So if they don't lock eyes with you, you don't approach?

    I mean yeah locked eyes happen but not every girl (especially high caliber women) are going to be gazing steadily back every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stigward View Post

    Girl's walking towards/ past me, I notice her, I make a little eye contact but to be honest she's not going to acknowledge it much unless you do something like I'm going to mention later.

    This is exactly what I was thinking I should be trying! I'm gonna try this!

    God I have such aa

    Seriously when I get over it I'm gonna be awesome.


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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    Quote Originally Posted by SOUTH_FL_PUA View Post
    This is exactly what I was thinking I should be trying! I'm gonna try this!

    God I have such aa

    Seriously when I get over it I'm gonna be awesome.


    Biggest difference between no limit texas hold'em and pick up

    AA makes you money in poker, in pickup it just holds ya back lol.
    Check out my thread called "the art of conversation", could help you break the ice out the in daygame land.

    Lol love that joke about poker and gaming.

    I was just reminded of an approach I made in work (I work in a shop) I saw her come in the main door when I was next to it, but was nervous to approach when other staff were nearby, so I kept trying to make opportunities, but always there were staff nearby. In the end I went to the last aisle, pretended to stand writing about the stock, when I saw her coming from the corner of my eye I casually headed toward the back of the shop, but as I passed her I just stopped beside her, turned my head with my body facing the way I was going and just said "What is that amazing perfume you're wearing?"

    She stopped and smiled and answered, I managed to start a conversation and she eventually turned to face me and took her sunnies off (I took both of these as IOIs). Now, unfortunately this is back when I hadn't done much game, So I got really nervous and didn't ask her out. It was a learning curve.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SOUTH_FL_PUA View Post
    So if they don't lock eyes with you, you don't approach?

    I mean yeah locked eyes happen but not every girl (especially high caliber women) are going to be gazing steadily back every time.
    No, what I meant was I lock eyes on my target, whether they're looking at me or not. If I see someone, its just a straight path to them no matter the angle.

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    Default Re: Mall day game approaches- I have questions

    I think as long as you don't jump out with a knife or grin like a maniac it doesn't matter so much as to what angle you approach from, it's carried by your body language. The only reason I adjust my approach is to feel more comfortable.

    Having said that if I approach a girl sat down it's usually from in front, and I usually walk pretty slowly, and calmly.
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