This seems like a huge ordeal for people in there first year of pickup. They start out the girls keep running away then they find when they make a certain joke, when they tell a certain story they get them to stay maybe even laugh. Its ok when u start, but when u want to make the transition from number closing to fucking the girl "houston...we uave a problem."
No girl wants t fuck the dancing monkey. Hes fun to watch but comes across as beta, needy and in non scarcity. Without even knowing her u are fighting for her attention.
Now I'm not saying to be boring. Not saying anything, asking chode questions. All that does is take u back to square one. What you want to be instead is....to be self amused.
Why does being self amused help.
A) its non approval seeking I.e. alpha. This also makes u more fluid and puts you in a frame to better pass shit tests.
B) its contagious, law of state transfer says what ever your feeling others will reciprocate.