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    Default Dancing Monkey vs Self Amused

    This seems like a huge ordeal for people in there first year of pickup. They start out the girls keep running away then they find when they make a certain joke, when they tell a certain story they get them to stay maybe even laugh. Its ok when u start, but when u want to make the transition from number closing to fucking the girl "houston...we uave a problem."

    No girl wants t fuck the dancing monkey. Hes fun to watch but comes across as beta, needy and in non scarcity. Without even knowing her u are fighting for her attention.

    Now I'm not saying to be boring. Not saying anything, asking chode questions. All that does is take u back to square one. What you want to be instead is....to be self amused.

    Why does being self amused help.

    A) its non approval seeking I.e. alpha. This also makes u more fluid and puts you in a frame to better pass shit tests.

    B) its contagious, law of state transfer says what ever your feeling others will reciprocate.

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    Default Re: Dancing Monkey vs Self Amused

    Give us a few examples of situations, or statements maybe about how you demonstrate this?

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    Default Re: Dancing Monkey vs Self Amused

    This is correct, when you're comfortable with yourself and you aren't going out of your way to achieve a good response the other person can sense it as you being very confident, thus leaving you with a good first impression.
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    Default Re: Dancing Monkey vs Self Amused

    Quote Originally Posted by Roadwarrior View Post
    Give us a few examples of situations, or statements maybe about how you demonstrate this?
    You essentially say what you find funny not what you think the girl will find funny. If your talking to a girl and she says something dumb and you think it would be funny to bag on her do it. If you think it would be funny to pretend to be retarded for the first 5 minutes of the convo then do it.

    but you have to do it 100percent for yourself. If the girl detects your doing it at all for her, it will turn her off and put you in the dancing monkey frame.
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    Default Re: Dancing Monkey vs Self Amused

    How about smiling... Sometime a girl may say something that isn't funny at all and I don't want to get the weird cricket silence so I just smile( but it's easy to tell I'm faking it because I smile from my right cheek instead of a full smile). So is that like beta or come thing along the lines of trying to get her approval?
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