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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    Tomorrow I swear it I'm going to do one. I haw social anxiety. ( lol got ride if my aa but it turned into social anxiety)
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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    Did an approach and the girl seemed interested in me ( I don't think she was though). So she's having a graduation/b-day party and she invited me ( and a whole freaking bunch of other people. Lol tbh I don't feel special anymore.) ( AFC behaivor I know). Anyway should I go? ( there will be many other girls and need ideas on gifts.) ( I dot really know her, she's a friend of my friend)
    Last edited by marvilo; 06-11-2013 at 04:22 PM. Reason: Needed to rethink what I said
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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    hell yeah you should go. If she wasn't that interested like you think, there should still be plenty of other girls there. Try not to be so negative man, you made an approach that's a start. If you don't know her to well, I wouldn't worry about a gift. That's just my two cents.

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    Lol she literally told me she hates people that go to bday parties and just eat the food without bringing a bday card or a gift. ( lmao I told her I was that guy jokely). But back to the negatively, how do I not get in that state because remember there's going to be many people I don't know.
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    How to be in the " abundance" mind frame with strangers
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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    Go to the b-day party get her a card and buy a bottle of alcohol (vodka). Give her the card and the bottle and then say, " You're lucky I got you the card. If you behave I may just share the bottle with you."

    She will share the bottle with you and you've covered your bases by bringing a gift.....in a cocky funny way.

    Think of it this way if you don't get her you will have access to a lot of other drunk girls to game.

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    Lmao the funny part is: she said no acohol or weed. Just a fun, pool party
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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    It might not help you out for this one, but here's some advice to transform you into a social master: A true leader of the party gets everybody entertained and interacting. You should aim to go all over the place, and socialize with everybody. Get an inside joke started with a few of them, and when you come back around to them, that joke will instantly get you fired up with the group again. Guy and girls find a guy who has the power and is at the center of the party to be the highest valued individual in the environment.

    I would say to work on your conversational skills. Learn how to flirt and carry out an easy conversation. Check out Sasha Daygame on Youtube for public pickups. On the flip-side, check out David Deangelo and William Zinser for humor.

    Given the fact you have social issues right now, it would be a miracle if they poofed away over night. I regret to inform you that it will take some time and effort to get to the point where you are able to naturally socialize with whoever you wish.
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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    Because I am in a new area I literally don't know anyone when I go out, which depending on your point of view is either perfect or terrible for learning Pua. What I do is just talk to whoever is sitting next to me at the bar, the bar tender or people near by. I am not at that point where I walk up to whoever and start talking. That usually gets me pretty comfortable for approaches. Same thing goes for this party, talk to people sitting near you or stay somewhat close to ppl you do know and let them introduce you to others. That's how I would go about it.

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    Default Re: Can you do that? Builds confidence

    I talk to alot of people but sometimes the guys look at me like I'm a weirdo trying to talk to them. ( I mean it works and I get everyone hyped up but I still feel it inside me)
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