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Thread: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

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    Default How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl? For example, a girl may say the following:

    "Don't attempt to talk to me. I am not interested in you."
    "Do you just want to get my number?"
    "Do you want to pick me up? Please don't try doing it."
    "Sorry, I have no interest in you."
    "You just want to get in my pants. I know that."
    "What do you want to do on earth? What's your purpose?"

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Easy, easy, easy, easy, EASY! This is just to easy to address right here. If you have ever read Derek Rake's stuff, then you would know EXACTLY how to respond to this.

    To respond, the most important thing is to be nice and respectful about it. You don't want to come off as a d1ck or angry about the fact that she is being a bitch to you. Here is the common response you should say:

    "Strange. You looked like a nice person from a distance. I guess looks can be deceiving. Oh well, have a nice day then."

    Here is another potential answer to rip off:

    "You know, I sort of had the feeling that you were not the nice type. However, I decided to give you the benefit of the doubt and not judge a book by its cover. Oh well, have a nice day then."

    By saying this and saying it respectfully, you are initiating a challenge with her. A challenge to try and prove you wrong. Unless she doesn't care about you, she is going to try and approach you after that. She will apologize and insist that she is a wonderful person. The key here is to not make it easy on her. Ask her something like "so you mean to tell me that you aren't this snotty usually?" Try to make it hard and a challenge for her to get at you.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Excuse me,what is Derek Rake's stuff?

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    My question is is how often does that happen to you? I mean if you just walked up to every chick you see and said "Hey lets hook up" then you still wouldn't get a super rude response that often. Most chicks don't want to come off as looking like a b1tch so it really don't matter what you say short of a hard insult you shouldn't get too many comments like those above.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Agreeing with swagman, definitely dont get angry, just laugh it off and flip it onto her without insulting her. You could say something like "actually i was more interested in your friend, and you seemed like the easiest way to approach, i guess not" or something along these lines.

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Adamhere View Post
    How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl? For example, a girl may say the following:

    "Don't attempt to talk to me. I am not interested in you."
    "Do you just want to get my number?"
    "Do you want to pick me up? Please don't try doing it."
    "Sorry, I have no interest in you."
    "You just want to get in my pants. I know that."
    "What do you want to do on earth? What's your purpose?"

    Excellent question let's see I think this deserves a good explanation. Let's get one thing strait I have done 50 sets and only 1 girl has ever said anything rude along the lines you said (I'm not interested! She was yelling LOL I pissed her off by being needy) but they have definitely said other rude comments. Let's look at some of the many rude things they have said to me.


    Rude Comments I have heard


    #1
    "Never approach us, talk to us, or touch us".

    They told my friend to tell me this at Church I was like okay whatever so I stopped approaching Church women now I really don't flirt with girls at Church but keep it really low key since I get judged as the creepy guy who hits on all the hot girls. I'm just like okay I know this comment is not true because I have girls now trying to hook up with me, making out with me, and grabbing my arse so I take it with a grain of salt. But yes that comment was very rude and it shattered my confidence in fact this was a huge blow to my self-esteem but it's a big part of what got me such a thick skin. When I hear rude comments I am like all indifferent like MEH because nothing will probably hurt as bad as this did and I know the worst is probably behind me.

    #2
    "That's sacrificial"

    I was asked if I was Catholic for wearing a cross in a nightclub well that was the wrong question since I am actually a Christian but oh well I wasn't in the mood to argue Religion with an HB in a Nightclub so I took the hit and just don't wear crosses any more doing Night Game but day game. So it's really not sacrifical since I am Christian she just thought it was because I failed the sh!t test and didn't say I was a Christian.


    #3
    Won't give her name

    Me: What's your name?
    HB6: MackdaddyJon (my name)
    Me: Your name is my name?

    Truly rude for an HB I was working on at a St. Paddy's Day Parade Bar to tell me this when I approached her 3 times and she was acting like she didn't know me. I wish I would have literally said WTF? Because that would have been epic but my response was a little AFC and I knew it when I walked away.


    #4
    Thinks I am creepy

    Me: I beat you (I know retarded right?)
    HB7: You were waiting for me to come out of the bathroom?
    Me: No why would I do that?
    HB7: Good because that would have been creepy

    Another HB I was working on at a St. Paddy's Day Parade Bar. This bar was just crawling with HB's that day. But anyways I just walked after she said that because this HB was being rude. So I never wait for girls out of the bathroom anymore I am like screw that.


    #5 ( I was on the street of the strip doing Night Game)
    Won't answer me

    Me: What kind of music do you like?
    HB7: What kind of music do you like?
    (Man I don't get why HB's are rude and don't answer me sometimes)
    Me: Blink 182, Flo Rida, Third Eye Blind, Bush
    (My answer was totally false I don't like most of that 90's stuff anymore and I have never been asked that so I guess I reverted to my high school brain and need to get better at these Sh!t tests)
    HB7: We don't like the same things sorry
    Me: Nice try I don't give up that easily
    HB6 & HB7 (2 set): SORRRY (trying to get rid of me) No I don't think so so anyway why won't you girls talk to me?
    2 set: we don't have anything in common
    Me: Oh really you got played!
    They were rude so I was rude and walked away as I said I played them. I played them because I never closed them haha. And I yelled it on a busy street doing Night Game to make them look like retarded and embarass them. That was fun!


    #6 (Nightclub again)
    Playing hard to get

    Me: You got two choices leave with me or number (I know I was the sh!t that night and this HB8 was playing hard to get all night)
    HB8: I am with my girlfriend
    Me: That is a bad answer!!! (I said this playfully pissed off acting mad and pointing my finger at her yelling)
    HB8: I'm sorry! (This HB8 was all pouty and was acting submissive to me I guess she liked that haha. Okay so what I said that was the push watch here next is the pull)
    Me: Have fun (Mr. Nice Guy all happy LOL what a good pull since I was a total jerk to her 2 seconds ago and I was acting totally non-needy since that was my 4th approach on her and I had kinda given up. See how I had given up well watch what she did)
    HB8: You Too
    After that she immediately started following me because I saw them later standing by the stairs waiting for me. How could this have have happened? They were ahead of me when all I did was pee for 2 seconds? I knew they were following me so I knew the push-pull worked
    Me: Last chance number
    HB8: Okay

    She then waited by the door for an F-close but because I got distracted by another HB I lost her.


    So here is some of the many rude comments HB's have said to me. Essentially the moral of the story is man I have had countless times where HB's have been rude to me but that's what I love about the game. It's not easy and HB's can't be predicted. You got to just go with the flow and when you do you are looking Alpha and feeling like a mackdaddy.

    Sure the things these Hb's have said to me were very rude and sure sometimes I get told to go away or told get lost or told to drop dead. But you know what? It's what gives me strength. Why? Look at #6 do you know why I acted like that and did that push-pull? It's because of all the tough rejection and rude comments I have experienced. That's what made me strong in that moment and that HB loved it.

    If it was easy all the time I would never learn to be strong. Now I go in sometimes to get shut down and actually when I am anticipating it it keeps me on my toes and actually sometimes works to my advantage because the HB will surprise me and have her ice shield down. Let's take for instance an HB9 Dimepiece in the Club who I thought in pre-approach mode to my self "She will never go for me" then I did my opener on her and she fell into my arms literally LOL and said the nicest thing ever and started flirting with me and grabbing me.


    Look man HB's being rude is apart of the game and you will just have to deal with it when it comes up. Just remember when girls are being rude that means they are sh!t testing you or rejecting you got to know the difference and whether you are willing to stick in there sometimes you can recover from a rejection and sometimes you can't.


    I like when I have a good blow out at the beginning of the day or night because it wakes me up and gets me ready to go. Just remember try to be witty and come up with comebacks even if you have to walk away for 5 seconds or 5 minutes to come up with a comeback do so because I have salvaged a ton of sets by walking away after a harsh blow out or rejection and then reapproached with my response and started killing it.


    The crazy thing man is HB's will be rude as hell then start following you around, or fall into your arms, or treat you like a king so don't think of it as permanent. You just got to ride it out let it make you stronger and become better at handling the B.S. because if you can handle them when they are like this you will get farther with them in set and in the future. Also remember HB's have lied to me told me they are lesbians and then try to make out with me later, said they came with guys and hook up with the first guy in sight, say they have a BF and then wait for me by the door for an F-close because I am looking good for 2 seconds, push me away yelling then fall into my arms later, etc. So you see all this rude behavior? It's when I handle it with strength or handle it smoothly that I flip the HB's emotions into all into me when they were just being rude to me. So always remember HB's will flip like a pancake for better or for worse. Just hit it hard and don't worry.

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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    The trick is just to remain unfazed. Say something along the lines of, "Jesus, do you always introduce yourself like that? You mustn't have very many friends".

    Not the greatest of lines sure but, I'm tired, and it doesn't have to be a stroke of genius. All you have to do is challenge her bad behavior and she will go back to being the nice person that she really is.

    Oh, and smile when you do this. Have you every tried being nasty to someone who is loving life? It's impossible. Someone who smiles after someone else tries to blow their social proof out of the water obviously is at peace with himself, and doesn't give two hoots about what other people think about him. Very Alpha!
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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Are you sure you aren't fighting a non verbal issue here? If it is very common you may want to calibrate especially framing and body language. Everything above is good also suave Kino has a great post about how to handle an insult search it out.
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    Default Re: How to respond to girls' rude/sharp responses when you approach a girl?

    Analogy
    Think of it as a boxing match. You are flexing your emotional strength and building your proverbial muscles of wit. Every time you go into set you are getting in the ring to box. HB's are going to box you out, rough you up, tear you down, etc. But what are going to do? You are going to get better, better, better.

    When they blow you out get ready, when they are rude get ready, when you go in set know they are ready, when you approach get ready. It's going to happen just be ready. Think to yourself "I got no chance, she's going to blow me out" When I think that to myself I start getting Alpha and going into stud mode. Go into stud mode and sometimes think to yourself before you approach "I got this I eat girls like this for breakfast."

    What you think will transfer to what you say so go in hard and kill it. You got this don't rely on their validation. Sometimes you get it sometimes you don't but sometimes you can even flip it even if it is bad. So don't worry just train yourself to get in the ring and don't take it too hard because if you do you will leave feeling weak. You go to leave feeling like you just got out of the ring.


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