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    Default approaching in a loud as fark club?

    This may be a dumb question but how the hell do you approach and run game on sets when you can barely hear anything. I have aa as it is but when I have to yell just to order a drink, it makes me even more reluctant to approach. I ask because I want to sarge at this club for ladies night tomorrow night. I have been there before, lots of hotties but its soooo loud. Suggestions or ways around this?

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    Default Re: approaching in a loud as fark club?

    There are ways you can approach without saying a word. Twentysix has some C/F things on nonverbal for when your in a loud club. One of the things he said was when you catch a girls eye do the whole Dr. Evil pinky move from Austin Powers. You can do other things like point at her or do some stupid little dance move when she is watching. If she laughs or smiles then you know it is game on with her. That may help your aa a little because you can tell if she is into you or not before you even speak to her. As far as how you do the Opener I'm not sure. I don't want to give you any bad advise. Hope this helps man. Good luck.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: approaching in a loud as fark club?

    Hey man, i can relate to you hear as im at university and a lot of my sarging is at night in clubs etc. Here is what i have learned (although learning new techniques all the time):

    + The bar is normally the ideal place to open as girls are bored waiting in the queue for drinks and just standing around not dancing or getting too distracted. A few approaches i have adopted that have given best results are:
    - Dancing/shuffling in the queue, with a big smile, looking like you are having a wicked time, this just shows you are confident and fun. It will draw attention to you from girls nearby, and when they look at you just smile back at them, see how they respond
    - Openers at the bar such as 'did you just see that fight?!', 'did you just push in front of me?' etc. work a treat, just anything to get a convo flowing whilst you wait in the queue

    +After you have got a convo started in the queue, play a game with her - if she wins you'll buy her a drink, if you win then she gives you a kiss. Play the 5-lies game by style, in which you are 99.9% of the time going to win.

    +If the game resulted in success, buy her a drink anyway for trying, then suggest going to a quieter area of the club to chat for a bit, or suggest going to dance (depending what mood she seems to be in)

    Hope this helps!

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    Default Re: approaching in a loud as fark club?

    thanks for the advice! I am really not a club person at all, I don't like the loud music and I am a terrible dancer lol, but this place has ladies night every Thursday, apparently its the busiest night of the week, so there are lots of sets. But as I said its so damn loud. The one time I have been there, I had a seat at the bar and chatted up the hot bar tenders a little bit and this 2 set that came up for drinks but that was it really. I have been wanting to try the 5 lies game Zeus, I just have not had the opportunity yet. I also want to try using that as a curve ball for the occasional sh*t test "are you gonna buy me a drink?" and flip that upside down and do something along the lines of "I don't buy girls I just met drinks, maybe if you can beat me in a game and earn it"

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    Default Re: approaching in a loud as fark club?

    Buy her a drink, even if she loses? You're setting the woman on a pedestal if you do that and you're also signalling that you're a pushover. If she loses make her buy you a drink or whatever, but don't buy her a drink.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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