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    Default phone call:the next step

    well ive been texting with a girl for about 3 weeks.shes basically is my girlfriend on facebook. and we treat it like a real official relationship even though its LDR (NM 2 NYC) . i was wondering when should i call her? (it would be the 1st time we speak). im bad at phone game,im not very good at keeping the coversation flowing.i had alot of awkward silences on my previous phone calls.i want to speak to her but don't want to lose value because of poor social skills. i want to be able to flirt and make her laugh. any tips or advice on this?

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    Default Re: phone call:the next step

    I don't know if this will apply to you but, I'm more confident in video chats compared to phone calls.

    Seeing the person in front of you is almost face to face talk minus Kino, which is much different than phone talk.

    On a phone call you need to be really smooth to let the convo going, because you won't have much material. However, in video chat, when you freeze, you can comment on something around her or something about her appearance and keep it going.

    Good luck.

    Edit: Style's phone mission in his book "The Rules of the Game" really gets you into the phone game. It's about successfully getting 5 movie recommendations from random numbers. I tried it when I first got in the game and it was really intense, I was so nervous but after I completed it, phone calls became a piece of cake... You should try it.
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