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Thread: The 3 main stages in picking up women!

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    Default The 3 main stages in picking up women!

    Just doing some research about the more psychological side of picking up woman and come across lots of information, here are the 3 mains stages in picking up women every pua should go through:

    1. Attraction: is defined by social psychologists as a positive evaluation of another and a desire to initiate contact and intimacy. In other words, it is the initial emotion that draws two people together. Both psychology and puas stress building attraction as the first step toward relationship and sexual development. Some strategies, supported by psychological research, include showing social dominance, courage, humor, or popularity (called mate choice copying).

    Psychology tactic #1: Cockiness. Women love guys who are somewhat cocky and humorous in the bargain. Guys who are cocky tend to stand out from the crowd, and women love them since they're so different from the other guys out there. So dont be afraid to pass off some cocky remarks, but dont get arrogant either!

    Psychology tactic #2: Challenge your girl. Somehow, women seem to be more attracted to guys who have the 'i dont give a damn' look. Act like you couldnt care less and then ask her whats so special about her that should matter to you. Once you do this and she responds, she is going to be putty in your hands.

    Psychology tactic #3: Hypnosis. In particular one method, called fractionation. The first step in fractionation is to ask the woman about experiences that she associates with happiness. There are many ways to get her to start talking about positive experiences without directly asking her. One way to get the ball rolling is by asking her to talk about her favorite vacation. Once she starts getting into the conversation, you’ll be able to tell how she truly feels about the vacation. If it was a really great experience, she’ll be smiling and laughing. If she only associates the vacation with minor happiness, she will show it in her body language. This is also a subliminal hack .The next step in fractionation is to ask the woman to talk about experiences that she associates with sadness. It can be harder to ask the woman to talk about sad experiences without directly asking her. A good way to get her to talk about sad experiences without her knowing is by mentioning a personal experience that was extremely sad. You could talk about a funeral or a natural disaster that you were in. Most likely, she will respond by talking about a personal experience of her own that was sad. Once you find out what experiences she associates with sadness, you’ll be able to probe deeper. The whole goal of fractionation is to make the woman go on a rollercoaster of emotions. By making the woman go on a rollercoaster of emotions, she will become reliant on you. She will remember the conversation she had with you because it wasn’t a shallow conversation. You will stand out from the other men in her life because she had a deep conversation with you that talked about her personal experiences.

    2. Comfort and Trust: is then advocated by pua theory, after attraction is developed. The goal of these techniques is to build a greater connection and sense of trust, to both prolong the relationship and make later seduction more likely. Psychological research also offers support for this idea, noting that the display of many moral virtues, agreeableness, empathy, and emotional responsiveness are indeed all key to maintaining an intimate relationship.

    Techniques to build comfort and trust:
    Building rapport.
    Showing awareness and empathy by reading body language.
    Creating a mutually-satisfying exchange.
    Displaying and expecting gratitude.
    Showing good boundaries and handling negative behaviours appropriately.

    3. Seduction: Contrary to many expectations about puas, the primary literature advocates spending mutually-satisfying time together for at least 7 hours (called the "7 hour rule") before attempting to initiate sexual activity. This too is supported by psychological research, noting that individuals often feel sexual interest more acutely after the establishment of emotional intimacy and the activation of various brain chemicals (particularly oxytocin).

    A fun technique to use when seducing a HB is one called anchoring, mentioned in the book 'The Game' by Neil strauss,and was used by Ross jefferies. The concept is quite simple, you get the girl the describe what she looks for in a guy, and list traits her perfect boyfriend/sexual partner would have, she needs to do this fast so she can quickly build up a picture of him in her mind, when she does this say something along the following:
    'So if this guy you have an image of was to be standing right in front of you, you'd get butterflies in your stomach?' (place you hand on your stomach at this point) 'and then those feelings would rise up like an elevator, to here.' (rise your hand up slowly, resting it finally on your chest) 'and then you'd probably blush, just like you are doing now'.
    This then anchors the process of your hand movements to the image of her perfect guy, so you can just subtlely put your hand on your stomach and rise in in conversation and it will trigger her blush etc.


    There is some useful and powerful stuff here i think so hope you guys use it well, i know its a long post but hope you picked the most of it up!

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    Default Re: The 3 main stages in picking up women!

    How do you suggest bringing up something sad in conversation? It seems like it would be tough to start talking about that unless a good oppurtunity presents itself, otherwise I'd just feel like a downer.

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    Default Re: The 3 main stages in picking up women!

    Easy - pay attention to how she reacts when you mention things/ find out about her personal life. Or what i say sometimes is something like "Ill be around next week and we will have to get a coffee, ive just a funeral to go to this weekend, i hate them" and often she'll be able to relate to a similar experience and bring up those sad emotions she felt.

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    Default Re: The 3 main stages in picking up women!

    Nice that seems like a good move. This could be an interesting aspect to incorporate into convos.


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