My friend says I don't know how to treat women right sometimes. I don't disagree but my problem to that I feel like I'm kissing up to a girl by being all nice and agreeing with many of what she says or pretending we have things in common when we don't. I need help with that. ( I don't want to be the kiss up guy like some of my AFC friends). Comment your thoughts. Is my way a alpha male trait or what?