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Thread: I was very shy..

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    Default I was very shy..

    not long time ago i start pick-up ..
    when i started i had no self coinfidence and i didnt know how to talk to a girl and i was very very very shy .. i didnt talk!
    now it stuck on me and i cant start with girls or something at my school cuz im not interesting ..what can i do?

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    Default I was very shy..

    I start pick-up recently ..
    before i was very very shy and i had no self coinfidence ..
    and peoples didnt take me seriously and i cant start with girls at my class cuz im stuck with the shy boy that dont talk and dont interesting . what can i do ?

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    Default Re: I was very shy..

    I start pick-up recently ..
    before i was very very shy and i had no self coinfidence ..
    and peoples didnt take me seriously and i cant start with girls at my class cuz im stuck with the shy boy that dont talk and dont interesting . what can i do ?

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    Default Re: I was very shy..

    You mean that you were always shy and lonely and everyone at your school at this point has the impression that you're boring ?

    The only way to fix that is to be the opposite of boring,not being afraid to speak your mind,I for example like being cocky funny,it's hard for me to shut it down because this was the way for me to escape the "shy personality".I was just trying to adopt the attitude of characters such as Tony Stark,Jack Sparrow,Sherlock Holmes(although he wasn't funny,he didn't give a damn,unless we're talking about Robert Dawney Jr's portrayal of Sherlock Holmes which works too).

    In short,it all comes down to your inner game.

    If you want some tips,I guess i can give you some from my point of view:

    1)Visualize yourself the way you want people to see you.
    2)Adopt that visualization and make it part of yourself.
    3)Don't give a sh1t.This is easier said than done,but there's nothing embarrassing in the world,we humans created the term "embarrassing".B ut if someone finds what I'm doing and who I'm embarrassing,I won't give a sh1t,this is me,this is what I do.
    I don't need anyone's approval.

    In other words,don't seek for approval from people around you.
    Only you decide what you like and what you don't.

    4)Be Honest - don't make sh1t up,tell the truth,you don't give a sh1t,remember ?

    This is how it works for me.You can use this and other material you find here or elsewhere to find something compatible with yourself.

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    Default Re: I was very shy..

    Man, I definitely know how you feel. I used to be very shy in highschool. However, when I talked to friends and family, people knew how crazy and funny I was. Anyways, shyness can be overcome. You gotta work on it. Put yourself out there and don't be afraid.

    I recommended reading a book for guidance; I read one to help me through college. Any books about shyness and social anxiety will do. These books usually help you question the *sh1t* that gets in your head.

    Thats it. Whats the worst that can happen? You have everything to gain and nothing to lose!!!

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    Default Re: I was very shy..

    The biggest battle in the beginning is the one with yourself. Your statement alone says you believe your not interesting and shy. Thus you think your not interesting and shy and you act not interesting and shy. Lots of stuff you can do to change that but one long term easy solution might be to look in the mirror every morning and say "I'm not uninteresting and I'm not shy. I'm interesting and outgoing." Do it for months and sooner or later you'll believe it. Some good psychological studies support this.

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    Default Re: I was very shy..

    "3)Don't give a sh1t.This is easier said than done,but there's nothing embarrassing in the world,we humans created the term "embarrassing".B ut if someone finds what I'm doing and who I'm embarrassing,I won't give a sh1t,this is me,this is what I do.
    I don't need anyone's approval."

    THIS AINEC!!

    Whenever my game is on point, this is the foundation for it.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.


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