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    Default My ups and downs and not so high.

    For years now I have been making an effort in the ways of attracting/picking up/ dating women. I been failing the last few years ever since I got out of the Army pretty badly. Granted I have a better job now in DC and I am much better physical shape than I was in the Army. I have been with women before but my highest achievement has always been a 7.5. lowest 6 in the looks department. They always had badass personalities.

    I know not every chick in DC is a stuck up cunt who thinks there college degree turns their pussy into gold. I guess I am slightly bitter because I have never achieved a 9. This is where I turn to this forum because im seriously running out of options.

    My stats, 24 5'10 I have been with over 20 something women so far like I said ranging from 6 to 7.5. I have a good job, I go to school, more athletic and I know my face isn't jacked up. I live a good life but im missing that one badass bitch. I also know my personality doesn't suck because whenever im out I usually make people laugh.

    I have approached women on streets before and that shit turned out bad, I only get numbers when I drink or online dating and those women are not what I desire. I seriously considered hiring a dating coach because I feel like im going full retard over here.

    Anyone who is already has experienced what I have gone through and overcome it or simply who can turn me in the right direction would be appreciated.

    How the fuck do I get those solid 9s.

    heres a joke I recently heard....I would drag my dick through a mile of glass just to hear fart through a walkie talkie lollllll. ok im done. Thanks for your help.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    I can tell you that all of your successes, military, schooling, physical build, don't mean sh1t to any of the girls you want to pick up. Sure, it looks good, but if you don't have the social ability to use it to your advantage, then you have absolutely no chance against any of them.

    To build up your social skills, do some reading and participating here. Watch the videos on youtube to get a good idea, and read some books to get a general idea of which direction you want to move in. After that, it's just practice, practice, practice out in the field.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    You want to start letting go of your achievments and stop qualifying yourself. as Swagman said. Basically let go of anything that you think makes you cooler and dont even bring it up. By taking action constantly you will feel entitled to the hotter girls as you get close. Approach better looking girls plain and simple and you will overcome. Fight on my brother
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    It would be a good idea to find a solid wing too. Someone who you can bounce ideas off of go out with regularly. Find someone with a similar interest in gaming, he will inspire you to keep learning and pushing yourself.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    Thanks for te information. I gotta start practicing more but due to my job it's gonna be hard. Might have to start doing out in public approaching such as super markets and stuff.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    Quote Originally Posted by hYdra View Post
    For years now I have been making an effort in the ways of attracting/picking up/ dating women. I been failing the last few years ever since I got out of the Army pretty badly. Granted I have a better job now in DC and I am much better physical shape than I was in the Army. I have been with women before but my highest achievement has always been a 7.5. lowest 6 in the looks department. They always had badass personalities.

    I know not every chick in DC is a stuck up c*nt who thinks there college degree turns their pussy into gold. I guess I am slightly bitter because I have never achieved a 9. This is where I turn to this forum because im seriously running out of options.

    My stats, 24 5'10 I have been with over 20 something women so far like I said ranging from 6 to 7.5. I have a good job, I go to school, more athletic and I know my face isn't jacked up. I live a good life but im missing that one badass bitch. I also know my personality doesn't suck because whenever im out I usually make people laugh.

    I have approached women on streets before and that sh1t turned out bad, I only get numbers when I drink or online dating and those women are not what I desire. I seriously considered hiring a dating coach because I feel like im going full retard over here.

    Anyone who is already has experienced what I have gone through and overcome it or simply who can turn me in the right direction would be appreciated.

    How the fark do I get those solid 9s.

    heres a joke I recently heard....I would drag my d1ck through a mile of glass just to hear fart through a walkie talkie lollllll. ok im done. Thanks for your help.

    I don't know about you but the 9's & 10's seem to give me less trouble and the 6's & 7's bust my balls severly. 8's are pretty neutral. Getting a 9 is not in my current list of goals. I think you should focus more on getting good at game then you can get any girl you want (within reason). My interactions with women lately has not really been about being able to get laid though it has been partially about that, it has mostly been about boosting my ego, getting good at game, and having fun.

    Take the pressure off and just practice talking to 9's and improving your game all around and get plenty of field testing so you can see how the 6's-10's behave. They all behave differently but generally a 6 thinks like other 6's and so on. When I truely feel the desire to get laid I'll let you know.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    I hear this quite often but I must have crappy game or I run into stuck up women. I'm not magical with my words so I guess I need to work on communication skills. But I been told my body language is good. How the hell would I practice though. Are you suggesting street game?

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    Quote Originally Posted by hYdra View Post
    I hear this quite often but I must have crappy game or I run into stuck up women. I'm not magical with my words so I guess I need to work on communication skills. But I been told my body language is good. How the hell would I practice though. Are you suggesting street game?

    My suggestion for good quality practice is mostly Night Game and street game if you are doing it for Night Game up and down on the strip of Clubs & Bars. The reason why is because you can build social momentum easily and one time I did 10 sets in an hour at a Club but that was my record and it was only with a wing I could knock out that many because he kept me motivated.

    Doing day game is not going to give you as much room to work and less HB's around. But sure practice doing Day Game at a local water park, Holiday Event, etc. You run into stuck up women? It's not that you are running into stuck up women mate it's that you need to tame them and overcome their objections. I almost broke this HB10 last weekend I was inches away from taking her from pissed off to totally wanting me. When I meet a stuck up women doing Night Game I walk away for a minute think of something witty then re-approach 2-3 times after my first approach of varying time intervals sometimes 30 min sometimes 1 minute. I do this to come up with witty comebacks, if I am getting IOD's, if they are bored, if I need to think of what to say to ping their emotions, if they are pissed off and I need to flip them, etc. This method works very well and sometimes I can flip them and it amazes me but sometimes I get blown out.

    Also it's not about being magical with words. It's about kino, overcoming her emotions by flipping them from happy to pissed off back to happy, from pissed off to happy, from bored to super high emotional state, etc. It's not the words you use it's how you use them to ping their emotions to cure boredom, cure their pissy behavior, etc. Pay attention to their emotional state and up your game based on that. Go in with a bad opener you better be ready to get the shaft unless you got a really high state and can recover right away.

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    Default Re: My ups and downs and not so high.

    Got you. Unfortunately I don't have people to hang out with around here. So wings not an option. I guess ill keep pressing on and reduce my liqueur intake because that's the only thing that helps me and I realize it's fucking up my game more than helping.


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