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    Default How much eye contact

    I have read conflicting things about this. Some people say it's alpha to not make much eye contact but then I've also read that you want to give the woman lots of eye contact. So should I initially not give her much EC (until she shows real interest)and those give more EC later? How should this go? Thanks.

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    I use a LOT of eye contact. I rarely look away.

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    Eye contact about 80% of the time when she's talking and look away when she looks away only. When you're speaking it's more like 60% of the time and you should look away when it's natural.
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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    well i struggle with this also. are you talking about when you are just walking around a place and some girl is looking at you? or while you two are talking because i feel like they are slightly different situations
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    It's when you're talking. If you make eye contact when you are walking around you should maintain eye contact and approach immediately. You can also break the Tension by doing something like pointing, waving, winking, making a funny face, etc. If you break eye contact, always break it to the side, not down or up.
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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    I didn't mean when you initially see her or vice versa but when you two are talking to eachother.

    Some people say you should make eye contact before you approach and not to approach if you don't get it. Where do you guys stand on that?(yes I know it's a different topic but thought I would bring it up anyway).

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    Eye contact before you approach is not necessary nor is it practical. If you do get eye contact and get an ioi then it's not really a cold approach.
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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    On a separate note, eye contact is a key part of dancefloor game.

    I usually try to catch a girl's eyes before moving in as it makes things a bit easier

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    Normally when making an aapproach you want to stop the girl and have a convo for the sole purpose of making eye contact. Its quite difficult to have good eye contact if both of you are walking. So make it a habit to stop girls and talk to them. Also, eye contact is a very good thing. Solid eye contact shows confidence in what you're saying and builds Tension. This is coming from a psychological perspective, so definitely follow the previous tips given in this thread.

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    Default Re: How much eye contact

    If you are walking about in a club/bar and you can notice that girls are looking at you, pretend like you cant notice and equally if you can see a HB, dont stare at her until she looks at you just to make eye contact, thats creepy.
    Eye contact on approach and then whenever she is talking or i am talking to her (aside from the times where im flicking from her eyes to lips so give some subconscious message). If she is with friends and they are talking id look at them and not and the target, like your attention is equally divided so your target if going to have to work for it.

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