Re: Most Important Aspect To Build Attraction?
Body language and voice is very important if you ask me.
You can find various threads about building a perfect body language just a simple search away.
I'll add a little insight about voice though. RSD Team breaks down the speaking voice into 3 parts:
Trying rapport (TR)
Neutral Rapport (NR)
Breaking Rapport (BR)
If your voice has a TR effect, it sounds a bit high note than your usual talking. Imagine yourself saying "How old are you?" to a girl. In TR state when you ask that question you end the sentence on a higher note, like a child talking about something exciting. This is an immediate turn off for women, they can instantly sense the weird vibe in your voice and they will brush you off easily. When you are in TR state, it's like you are trying to get the girl's rapport, you become needy.
NR state is when you're talking to your friends. You are cool, composed, every word flows naturally, no awkward ups and downs.
BR state comes up a bit more cocky than NR state, like you are a bit angry when talking. If you get stuck in BR state people will think of you as an asshole. But BR state is good because it shows you are a leader, alpha.
So what you need to do is never ever ever be in TR state, be in NR state and BR state from time to time. Try to balance them.
I hope you'll understand my explanation. Good luck,
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