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    Default Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    Lately I have been doing ok during the day scene.

    Lastnight was the first time I've been out in a while and I'm confused because these two girls kept trying to order me to sit down?

    I obviously held my frame and didn't sit down even though they requested like 4 or 5 times.

    Then I was talking to this one girl I'm like
    "whats your name?"
    she's like "My names Melissa but you can call me whatever you like"
    so I'm like "Ok how about sarah?" (maybe a douchey comment)
    She's like "I'd rather die"
    Me "Ok sarah"

    Then she proceeded to leave and I'm like w/e didn't really care I was in a 2 set already but then she came back and tried to tell me no matter what happens she's going to be a General Manager of a hotel at 25?
    then after going on a rant about it she just turned and walked away lol
    Is she trying to qualify herself to me?
    Should I have maybe acted more impressed than I did?

    I didn't really like her, but I think I could have had a more positive interaction.

    I'm trying to figure out while at night game people always act like they think I'm judging them or they seem like they have something to prove.


    I just don't experience this during the day and didn't know if nighttime dynamics had something to do with this shift in results?

    I have no idea if anyone has any advice it'd be great.
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    Default Re: Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    first thing that came to my mind was, did she take any drugs?

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    Default Re: Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    Quote Originally Posted by cesar3003 View Post
    first thing that came to my mind was, did she take any drugs?

    Maybe she was doing cocaine in the bathroom.. That's all I can think of
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    Default Re: Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    It was kind of a test, kind of her qualifying herself to you. Don't act impressed when someone you don't know tells you this or that. Just ignore.

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    Default Re: Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    Drugs seem like a possibility, but if we assume it wasn't drugs then the problem was that you held your frame too much. You became unattainable, so she went into ego protection mode.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Frame control wars- proving herself to me?

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    It was kind of a test, kind of her qualifying herself to you. Don't act impressed when someone you don't know tells you this or that. Just ignore.
    For sure I didn't act impressed I just didn't know if it was not cool I was like "ok..."

    and then she ran off. Like I said, she wasn't a target but sort of weird situation imo. Solid strategy thou. very good at ignoring.


    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Drugs seem like a possibility, but if we assume it wasn't drugs then the problem was that you held your frame too much. You became unattainable, so she went into ego protection mode.
    Story of my life:

    Either I'm donating my frame on a silver platter.

    Or holding onto it with a death grip.

    This is a problem with me and I just realized how many girls I've missed out on because of this.
    Thank you for commenting, it's counterintuitive but it does make sense it's possible to hold a frame too hard.
    Sometimes I will even get them attracted give them a challenge and be too unatainable. >.< (I wanted them and they liked me and yet I didn't get some of them... my ego may get in the way as well (obviously))
    once I get this frame control stuff down I think it would be a huge turning point for me.

    I do need a turning point imo, I lack the consistency and caliber of women I desire, but I'm not giving up.
    I have personal goals to be dating 3 9's at the same time, not even close yet, lucky to pull 1.. on rare occasions as well!

    At the very least lately I have been able to at least approach women much more comfortably thanks to these forums.


    Ty Duke
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