Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.
Please, the friendzone doesn't even exist. It's a false mentality created for people who believe that they have no shot with a girl. If you want proof, look back in high school at the popular guy, where when he became single, all of his female friends wanted to get at him. I've seen it happen numerous times in high school and college. Hell, it's even happened to both of my brothers.
I've had this question asked to me before by a girl, and my response was this:
"What's in it for me?"
After some negotiating and teasing, I ended up giving her a hug and some advice on her dating problems. In return, she bought me a whole six pack of Coldstone cupcakes. God DAMN do I love the power of persuasion
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X