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Thread: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

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    Default Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Is it needy for always trying to let a girl, text, call, talk, and ask you to go somewhere first?? Ex: girl: give me a hug Steven

    Me: no, I prefer my girls to come to me first

    Girl: you're so needy Steven!! ( she was very serious about it).



    So do you think that is needy?
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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    The long answer to this question is no. The short answer is still no.

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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    It's not needy, however it isn't necessarily good. If a girl tells you to hug her and you do that straight away, it would mean that she owns you.

    It depends on the context.

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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Nope. You played it perfect with your line. But keep it going. Return fire and joke it off on yourself (fark the game here, I don't care what people say, everyone appreciates someone that can joke on them self w/o caring, don't think its a dlv). Return fire: "Your needy" Joke it off: "Big boy needs some love "

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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    definitely not, if you want them to do most of the work that you've probably been doing for a while prior then hell no

    i like that attitude though

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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    I agree with Bballking I would probably joke it off. My girl does the same thing sometimes. I would just joke around with her before I actually do it. But hey thats just me. Benefits of this is that you are her teddy bear and with that advantage she will do anything to please.
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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Next time retaliate by saying "youre the one asking for a hug!"
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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Is it needy for always trying to let a girl, text, call, talk, and ask you to go somewhere first?? Ex: girl: give me a hug Steven

    Me: no, I prefer my girls to come to me first

    Girl: you're so needy Steven!! ( she was very serious about it).



    So do you think that is needy?

    Yes too needy. Why? Because yes I would prefer the girls to come to me as well but you shouldn't say that because then they already know what you're trying to achieve and the game is over. You have to work for what you want and flirt your way or hint at things you want. It's always good to be direct but sometimes it's better to leave things to subtext.

    You don't want them coming to you because you were asking for it. It's better for people to come to you on their own without any coercion. Just give them what they ask for but be a challenge too.

    As an example a Cocktail Waitress at my favorite local spot tried to hook up with me one night and I auto-rejected her because I was not in the mood and stuck in my head. Essentially I didn't give her what she wanted and she immediately went on vacation for like two weeks after she said she would be there next weekend and then said she never would hook up with me! Lesson learned man. You got to take advantage man when a girl asks for something if it is in your power give it to her or explain why you can't because if you fail then they might friend zone you or reject you.

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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Lmao she can't FRIENDZONE me if she tried. All I have to do is tease and release and it'll build up the attraction and she'll want to fark me if I ask her. ( she's easy)
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    Default Re: Is this needy or not? Definition of needy.

    Please, the friendzone doesn't even exist. It's a false mentality created for people who believe that they have no shot with a girl. If you want proof, look back in high school at the popular guy, where when he became single, all of his female friends wanted to get at him. I've seen it happen numerous times in high school and college. Hell, it's even happened to both of my brothers.

    I've had this question asked to me before by a girl, and my response was this:

    "What's in it for me?"

    After some negotiating and teasing, I ended up giving her a hug and some advice on her dating problems. In return, she bought me a whole six pack of Coldstone cupcakes. God DAMN do I love the power of persuasion
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