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Thread: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

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    Default Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    I've worked my game a little bit here and there but mostly when its convenient; I guess you could say the conventional ways. Now that I'm trying to push through aa I'm stuck in this mind set that every time I approach a girl I need to be gaming her and going for a Number Close. Realistically if you don't have the skill it's probably not going to happen, but I kick myself if I talk to a girl and don't go after the number. Anything, even possibly homework wise, that you could do to kick this expectation?

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    Default Re: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    Don't worry about it. You have the right mentality. You don't always have to be "gaming" the girl in the technical sense to go after the number. Do make it a habit though to ALWAYS go after the number no matter how shitty the interaction may have been. It's not an expectation. It's a habit.

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    Default Re: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    Devote more time to the game. Carry a note pad or make notes on your smart phone after you fail with approaching a girl. Then later on decompress and analyze where you went wrong.

    Trial and error is your friend. We all fail and it's only failure if you don't learn from it or just give up.

    Failure isn't fatal but failure to learn from it certainly is.

    - Every athlete practices his sport

    -every actor practices their lines

    - every successful business man practices delivering his business proposal.

    A pua needs to practice and practicing in the field is the best thing.

    Start with openers and holding a 5 minute conversation. Then build on 1 new skill every 2 weeks.

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    Default Re: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    I find I usually have the best results when I dont expect anything! When im NOT trying to go for a number. Just be fun and out there. Dont creep. Remember the goal is to LEARN here and MEET new people. That means guys and girls. If you go around meeting tons of new people without really turning the "game" on you will have girls looking in your direction, plus lots of new friends and contacts. I prefer to look at the game more as bettering myself socially rather than trying to hook up with as many girls as I can. The results usually end great! Now, don't forget you do need to push yourself and close. I am just talking about approach mentality. Stop worrying about closing, you have to qualify the the girl to be good enough for you before you worry about that. In doing that you'll gain attraction.

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    Default Re: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    Exactly what the last 2 guys said, but I personally would still go for the number. Since I ALWAYS go for the Number Close, it's no pressure because it's just something I do naturally. I still do whatever I want, but I go for the number regardless.

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    Default Re: Really starting out. How do you kick the expectation?

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    Exactly what the last 2 guys said, but I personally would still go for the number. Since I ALWAYS go for the Number Close, it's no pressure because it's just something I do naturally. I still do whatever I want, but I go for the number regardless.
    To snowball off that, do you always go for it even if your not THAT attracted to the girl, even if she is a solid 8? I find this to be the kicker for me, I'll talk to a 7 or 8 and as things start going well I think 'eh, I don't think I'd really want to fark this girl, I'm hopin to slay bigger fish.'


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