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    Default Am I overthinking this.

    A pretty coworker of mine may be hitting on me and im so socially unaware im not sure if i should make a move. Hopefully you guys can help me with how to play this. Heres a list of things ive noticed.

    1. whenever theres downtime she finds her way next to me.
    2. when she does this she talks about deep things i never asked her.
    3. sometimes shell comment on my state.. like yesterday she was sitting next to me on a break and just said out of nowhere "your so relaxed". What does this mean? is it a compliment? How do you respond to something like this.
    4. she makes a lot of jokes when speaking to me but not anyone else.

    I know this isnt a lot and i may be romanticizing the situation in my head. but since the summers here and after next week we wont be seeing each other until august, i figure now would be a good time to make a move.

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    Default Re: Am I overthinking this.

    If youre aware of the fact that she treats you differently than others then you are NOT socially unaware. It sounds like you lack confidence, and it also sounds like she wants the dick.

    So ask her what shes doing for the summer, get the conversation going and as you part ways say something simple like " gimme your number so we don't have to wait until summers over to hang out!"

    (Obviously to leave the best impression you have to end the conversation first, this way if she says i gotta go, you wont have to panic to ask for the number.)

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    Default Re: Am I overthinking this.

    go for a kiss close.before the use the cube


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