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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    oh i forgot to mention...i sent her the "friendship flowers" yesterday saying looking forward to the next chapter of being friends. You were right.....it didnt seem to help....i got no acknowledgment or reaction except her mother at my door. So it seems i pushed her away like i said above.

    The upside is i can have fun with this other girl without worrying if im about to get back with my ex.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    the dynamics have changed

    she married you because she felt attraction NOT TRUST

    which will bring bad memories or a possible argument or whatever worst case she thinks that she would rather not deal with. So it is easier to not see me.
    Becos your were a bit needy and also went ahead and did that whether friendship flowers it still doesn't constitute a good move here.now if she liked you she also has to deal with the fact that you guys must be friends.refer to accepting the friendship frame and dealing with it.
    flowers is a needy move.

    get back into attraction frame resist no contact rule its not necessary here in the current dynamic.its not about how much space you give her its about what you do with the shots you get.every girl has a maximun they can take.refering to the making mistakes you could avoid.after that is pretty much done.its like a hardcore impression on their minds.maybe that what you want.
    if not focus on struct

    the girl may be sad and the more you avoid her here..(remember divorce was your idea). when you suggest friendship you pursue via attraction.she need to know you like her.

    a simple statement that does not make you look needy should do.she suggested friendship and you blogged about it that you agreed and an addition you sent her that..SHOW INTENT

    .it doesn't have to be needy(thats a rule in dyn).you may write down a few then compare notes.

    sample:i have a clear..

    u still have bounty on you since you ask her out a couple of times do not expect her to come out and meet you just yet.

    when you are going to drop the baby and mom comes out.first of all dissociate your self from the fact that she must see you.greet her mother nicely strong eye contact give the baby away and immediately turn yourself to your car.most times vary little longer eye contact and deliver baby.other times just deliver the baby.

    now when she comes out this is key expect it.you have an attractive frame and women may come out to see you.don't smile or be excited.if you have not been freezing out you wont be.don't smile don't frown strong eye contact, deliver the baby and leave to car.if she calls you just turn and say you got to get going later.

    you may give this a fair shot.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Divorce was mutual......but she filed. I was going to file but was dealing with my father's cancer and a busy office. I told her I was too busy to do it....so she did.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    say you meet a woman today she may not be atracted to you.u
    create attraction
    .it easy if you follow a system..it doesn't matter who filed it.when you stated you aware too busy to file that might have challenged her.why was she waiting all this while to file.waiting on you.Nope she could have.sorry about that one.guaranteed even if you move on you may be thinking of her.if they is a way to have her in your life..YOU MAY TAKE IT.No woman waits for their husband to file the divorce.she proved that to you when she felt like you delaying was a way to test her to see if she would go ahead.and the whole ordeal might have made her just go with.

    Factoid:
    This woman sees you as the leader of her son.granted its easier to align herself with you.

    You used the lol barbie doll got jokes line and she laughed if anything this should prove to you she is 'hardcore game compatible'that means if you run on her it should work barely mostly yeah

    Every woman who gets out of a LTR wants something different if you can turn that side of you and present she will at least have relations with you.

    You handled shit test via struct etc.

    i have had enough experience with dynamics to know attraction cuts almost through all

    forget IOIs you may create interest in a woman you 'have fun with' or the one who gave you some years and has never seen the side of you fully yet.you may crush into her or may have to deal with her all your life bring her in


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