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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Wow it went pretty well.....i added a couple words here and there such as at the end i said i was working to be a better Christian man. She was startled, actually shook her head in disbelief or whateveras said previously its best not to feature being a Christian man often.just go ahead and be if you may.

    I told her we should have a joint birthday for our son which is in early September, but she said she wasn't there yet. Went to kiss on her forehead and she leaned her cheek instead.

    Nice escalation there bet you miss kissing her forehead.it was a bit too soon...but then its ok.next time remember its a process.i know you are unaffected by her reply to that and understand it was a bit pressure.shes attracted.theres a lot to do.

    Text later was "the queen still looks pretty cute in the mornings". She said "thx U! have a safe and fun trip."
    She is really on about this trip this is a second subliminal ioi in that regard.you must love sweet talking her.attraction foremost..

    Where are u from Hardrock? Curious where your English is from.
    woah yur outta line man ...

    I later validated what she said...."I heard and appreciate what you said. You had no fault...in your own way you were communicating your unhappiness, and I should have put my pride aside and been the man you needed."
    Hmm you shouldn't have said this.she may be drawn a bit so it lessens the blow but then its like accepting you made a huge mistake which u kind of did but then...wil show one thing below.


    You have done extremely well and are on the right path.you can't look back now.even though you made a few mistakes overall it was good but some statements you made...remember with women little details count.

    if you haven't sent her via text the blueprint extraction message you must while you are away.copy and paste now if you can why?all our structures are built in that sort of and you must solidify your position.no half ass red hot attraction.its RED HOT ATTRACTION.i don't believe in broad strokes but nailing things that are pertinent to your dynamic.Whilst you are away there are some things you must do.in a nutshell you did well but copy and paste that text to create a fossil in her mind.theres more work ahead .get that text on her phone.its salvageable
    The whole thing went down at her door.....last time we exchanged our son was the first time I saw her up close and alone in a long time. Today was the second time. It wasn't by text. The texts were later....just 2....one flirt about her being the cute queen. The other a bit deeper.

    I have no idea what you mean by extraction blueprint text message.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    The whole thing went down at her door.....last time we exchanged our son was the first time I saw her up close and alone in a long time. Today was the second time. It wasn't by text. The texts were later....just 2....one flirt about her being the cute queen. The other a bit deeper.

    I have no idea what you mean by extraction blueprint text message.
    Obviously you followed the structures but what am saying is you must send her this last message in thread as it is so she will have a copy.out of this will we build the blueprint etc.if you haven't you may

    Hey 'name of x wife here'
    I am on this morning(time of day) about to let out some deep revelations.it has come to my notice that you may have ... therefore i must tell you this.made some huge decisions for my life and almost everything.i took care of mediation because i knew you are a great mother, very nurturing and supportive.infact i had made the decision earlier on even before but then i just had to be sure you didn't mind urs.you come off as a strong woman..i had a clear..u may not go there on why the divorce happened because you may have won.it doesn't matter all i want is my kid to grow up well and we seem to share that passion.sort of like teammates working towards a common goal.
    you must take a journey with me

    fill in the variables with her name and send if you haven't why?it gets us what we want plus what you did in tandem.the goal is very noble don't worry its all tied with your character and its you.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Where is your English from so I can see where you are coming from? We don't talk like that here.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Rod lets focus on the task at hand if you may.i speak just English..With attraction you can't half ass things or you get half ass results.that text must get to her phone if it hasn't...

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    You have your faults at DHVing but the time you take to answer and the answers itself are good. Post pictures of you with girl friends on your facebook and parties and cut contact. Get yourself another girl, an idealist one (check pandoras box)

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    There are a few loopholes we must fix then we can go from there.you may update this thread if anything has gone on..but then we must get this other thing done with so we can ramp up the rest. PEACE

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Hardrock.....I need to translate some of the things you write because we don't speak English that way.

    Bmr_id.......if I did that it would just piss her off and validate what she thought of me. She is not a college chick. A few years ago after a big fight and just before make-up-sex she actually made me log on to my FB and email....it was clean.

    Had a great cruise with the kiddo.....communicat ed a little by text and sent her pics of our son with Mickey Mouse and other stuff as boat was leaving the port....., and she throws out going on an Alaska cruise. Caught me off guard but I said next year. It was all positive vibes as we departed and I lost cell phone use.

    Returned from cruise yesterday morning and spoke with her at night by phone....she put the brakes on me a little saying we cant do everything together because she doesn't want to confuse the kids(her 15 y/o). I was a bit discouraged but this is normal for her. Once she gets her mind set, she needs to change it herself. It's very hard to change her mind. But consistency at showing her is key and im continuing to better myself as Christian man who wants a family unit(I didn't say any of that to her).

    The plan is to continue attraction and regain her trust.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Ok I sent the blueprint extraction text

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Hardrock.....I need to translate some of the things you write because we don't speak English that way.
    Rod..i speak just english You need to stop treating her like you are back together.its understandable that she reacted that way.what you did was not bad but there are other things to get handled.take that with a grain of salt (her reaction).

    she put the brakes on me a little saying we cant do everything together because she doesn't want to confuse the kids(her 15 y/o). I was a bit discouraged but this is normal for her.

    From now onwards your interaction should move from comfort to a bit emotionally charged.as in having a conversation that triggers attraction more.this will help you in your dynamic.

    But consistency at showing her is key and im continuing to better myself as Christian man who wants a family unit(I didn't say any of that to her).

    Nope.Do that on your own.stop going to her church.there has been a slight change in dynamic since she talked about not confusing the kids.personally kids would go with anything, they adapt.yep sure it may be hard on them but doing everything together does not affect the kids in any way.be non reactive.remember RED HOT Attraction.

    Ok I sent the blueprint extraction text
    On your journey you may experience success don't ever think its over, the game never ends sort of.Thats means she may be giving massive IOIs don't coil and start being nice.sending her photos whilst you were supposed to be having fun was "nice'.a simple text may have been ok.not to say that was bad but then we have an agenda.att..

    In a nutshell remember you guys are not together yet so chill with making plans etc.there are other ways..

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Hey man will update this thread on the next..soon, however currently assume the frame of you just met her.PEACE


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