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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    She texted me a Sh1t Test.....since I'm a better man that I should drop off the baby at her house tomorrow instead of having her come pick him up. She probably doesnt want to lose sleep or get in car and drive in a little rush hour traffic.....either way I'm thinking this is a form of dlv and her manipulation and I shouldn't let her lower my value.....what should I text back? I'm thinking of saying I like seeing her at my door, so no. Or the King and his son need their sleep. Truth is I go to the gym right after she picks him up and this doesn't go with my plans.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Yep you can't make it ..can't make it.but the key is definitely in your reaction

    cum pick him i know you can handle it

    OR

    Something came up, why don't you come this time and i'll bring the baby later(another time probably)

    Truth is I go to the gym right after she picks him up and this doesn't go with my plans.

    This is why you shouldn't budge.Its a Sh1t Test as recognized remember if wife tries to make make you do something you really shouldn't be doing. attraction could be amp here by treating it as such.

    One thing that may happen is she may thread with you as in try to really get you to it. simply state if you may
    not now maybe another time i could have but then..

    if she says another thing then give her lol really i bet that was supposed to get me to slide right into it

    change subject or talk a bit then disengage

    its good you realized you pushed a bit too hard.theres something we must do.she is obviously attracted take that in and focus on struct more

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    All by text........she wanted to come at 6:30 instead of 8. I flirted....said to wear the same dress she wore at court. She said "lol..yea ok". I said if she was working I could keep him and she could make it up. She said she only had a meeting and asked to make up Monday. I said we already had plans but another day. When it was getting too complicated she said lets just keep it same day. I said the king and prince need their sleep so see you at 8. We both exchanged a couple of picS and stories of baby and that was it....she showed up around 8 today and didn't really make eye contact.....was eager to walk away while I told her he had breakfast and diaper change.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    there are a few loopholes in the relation currently..

    you had a lot of IOIs previously
    Christian man comment showed on some level how she felt about you even though she may be aware of that fact.she cannot describe the feeling she could only hint it.to be specific she has been noticing change in you.

    But then you dropped the line:Today u saw the man you remember
    and fell in love with.i got my mojo

    This line may look like a safe bet but it hits the core frame on some levels.why?you are still trying to get back things on track via attraction etc.but that statement subtly implies she likes you and u are down with that.you don't need to put any work into it.for this dyn its bad.

    You may have gotten here now, but it still stands that you must be the one to, instigate the pull. so you can determine on some level making sure she is ok, the direction you go.if you fail at this her resistance may go up.

    In a nutshell you are still pursuing her.its good you went to kiss her but hold off on that ,more of that she may think all you want is..

    nerdball : down with the negging.after a bit of momentum swap it out

    can't talk working:whenever she has to go you may stop threading unless of course..

    i noticed you may be employing asking her what to do but remember do that sparingly.never "seem" controlling.

    Taking action and moving ahead
    take the mojo back.frame it as you are handling this yur way ,and there something unique about her that contributes to the few reasons you are moving forward with her.

    hey i take that mojo comment back.to be honest one of the few reasons am.. is yur unique..

    after that you may do your verbal game for a bit then cut off.also stick to arm brushing (will elaborate on that.).

    sometimes little things as said can turn things around unexpectedly.you want to avoid that.or you may loose all attraction she felt,, if not half ass results which is not what we want.not to say you are not doing well but the above could be handled

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    today a friend came into my office with her husband....she works near my exwife on the nursing floor. She complimented me on the flowers i sent to my exwife....too bad they werent from me. So i guess its on to BF destroyer game.... or no contact.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    Don't panic yet if you are.. do not inquire.there might be..but the IOIs and attraction is REAL.this is also another reason why you can't act like its all on..the question is why would this woman do this.women are supposed to be tight lipped about these things.don't get mad at her though.
    even if you sent them why would she compliment you on that.or is she trying to let you in..either ways see it as someone may also be interested.start talking to other girls innocently for now?Nope

    bottom line RELAX.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    ive already been preparing for this day for awhile thx to this forum. Jealous.....i wont be showing any of that because obviously it is beta and women dont like insecure men. I was considering sending her flowers anonymously to fark with the other guy. If my exwife questions me(which i doubt) i will just deny it.

    I dont think this was a setup and think it is real...my exwife is a very beautiful woman. The friend is an older woman who is a nurses aid under my exwife and i am treating her husband. She tried to cover it up after she realized they werent from me. Her husband had no idea. FLowers are placed on a desk out in the open and everyone can see them. It's a hospital floor and everything is open at the nurses station. Regardless i will keep doing what im doing except have less contact.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    I was considering sending her flowers anonymously to fark with the other guy. If my exwife questions me(which i doubt) i will just deny it.
    Let it go on that one.there are other ways.(engaging)

    my exwife is a very beautiful woman.
    at least you accept that..good Mindset!

    Regardless i will keep doing what im doing except have less contact.
    Nope.this woman is ATTRACTED to you and we have momentum somewhat.either ways you are handling it well.the best way is to stick and escalate while ignoring.. or resisting the temptation to ask her.which i know you can.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    A younger (27) buddy of mine told me i shouldnt shy away from competition and should deliver a single rose to the nurses station in person for all to see and just walk away, or say something very short. She will either throw it away, or smile all day....in front of everyone.....not sure thats a good idea. He sent a text to 45 girls explaining situation...results should be fun.

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    Default Re: How to alpha communicate with new exwife.

    So far the consensus is give her space. Right on hardrock.


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